• Hi. It’s great to see you. Welcome!

    Our forum members are people, maybe like yourself, who experience mental health difficulties or who have had them at some point in their life. Amongst our membership there is a wealth of expertise that has been developed through having to deal with mental health issues.

    We are an actively moderated forum with a team of experienced moderators. We also have a specialist safety team that works extra hard to keep the forum safe for visitors and members.

    Register now to access many more features and forums!

Girlfriend finally left, couldn't take my episodes

C

CBK99

New member
Joined
Jan 10, 2019
Messages
1
My girlfriend of 1 year left me, after trying to take care of me despite my episodes, she understood and tried to help whenever she could despite her having BPD, but she had enough and left, this has all happened with my past relationships and friendships, they couldn't take it and left.. I promised her to get on medications again, but unfortunatly before I could we had a big fight and she blocked me on all social media but kept my number, I've been so emotional and my bipolar seems to be getting worse and I have noone to help around me, i'm all alone, I told her she can text me or call me if she needed me but it's been 4 days and she hasn't checked up so I think she's gone, how do I control this anger? sadness? I feel so ashamed because despite her having a mental illness she always helped me, but she said my behaviour was too toxic for her well being
 
Last edited:
Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

Well-known member
Forum Guide
Joined
Apr 9, 2011
Messages
34,410
Location
Magical fairy wonderland xxxx
hi
im so sorry your girlfriend left
it must be hard with you both having mental health problems
you are very welcome here i hope you find the forum useful
love
fairy Lu x
 
S

Susulaila

New member
Joined
Nov 14, 2019
Messages
2
Location
Illinois
I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm over here hurting because my bipolar fiancé left me a week ago. Not sure if it's for good because he always does and then comes back. But, I'm one of the women who actually wants to stick by his side and can actually deal with the episodes but here I am hurting...:( I hope she comes back to you!
 
Tawny

Tawny

Well-known member
Joined
Nov 10, 2019
Messages
205
Location
England
I don't know if she is serious about ending things with you or if she needs a break as has reached the end of her tether. I don't have a partner as i could never cope with not knowing the difference.
 
P

Penny68

Active member
Joined
Nov 7, 2019
Messages
34
Location
Liverpool
I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm over here hurting because my bipolar fiancé left me a week ago. Not sure if it's for good because he always does and then comes back. But, I'm one of the women who actually wants to stick by his side and can actually deal with the episodes but here I am hurting...:( I hope she comes back to you!
I can relate to you so much My boyfriend does this to me and I also want to stick by his side but I find it so hard at times
 
Top