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Feeling real low and want the pain to stop

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Rae9mm

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Hi I'm Ray, I've Been on the forums for a year or two and was scared and too embarrassed to post I'm a 39 yr old Black male who always had suicidal thoughts going up since the age of 12. I saw a Psychologist for a while then stop going. Fast Forward i have a beautiful wife and two kids but I got caught cheating on my wife for the second time and unless a miracle happens were getting a divorce.That when those thoughts popped back in my head. Some days are better than others and I know I have my kids to live for but what happened when one day that's not enough to cheap me here
 
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Foxjo

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Hi Ray
You seem like you have been unhappy for a while. You have got yourself in a bad place right now but it can get better. You just need to work through things a bit at a time.
Maybe it's worth getting a referral back to talking therapy?
Have your kids in your mind and try and stay safe
Hugs
Fox
 
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Rae9mm

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Thank you for the advice I'm in the process now
 
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pdrpaul

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Gd luck my friend. Cheating can be a sign of low self esteem. I aint going to try come up with answers as there is a million literally different answers and I have many issues too. But I hope what ever you do you pull through. N remember your kids love ya no matter what. Need anyone to chat too pm me mate . Be well
 
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