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Feeling low beacuse i have no friends

Nirvana2991

Nirvana2991

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Hello I feel super low as I have no friends in my city anyone got any advice
What to do and how to live with your self
 
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George10111

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Hey I know how you feel. Having not friends sucks. I spend my time doing solo activities like hiking, riding a bike, running. If none of those interest you then you could try extensive research about a topic that interests you. The best part of having no friends is there’s no clicks or social rules to deal with, no fighting, negativity. In time if you don’t find friends after being isolated long enough you do get used to it. I hope you find what you’re looking for. Good luck
 
Hillman hunter

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Sorry you feel like that,
Hang on in there, we are here to support you
 
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Snowshoes68

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I use apps like bumble bff to strike up conversations with people and I can choose to meet them or not. Either way, it's socially stimulating to get texts and engage in conversation so it passes the time when I feel lonely.
 
Mayflower7

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Hi,
Could you join some groups locally then you might find some like-minded people.
Sure you'll make friends here as well.
Have you been to your dr about feeling low?
 
losingme1989

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Hi, I have no real life friends also, dont find that I get lonely really, though that may be related to having fairly negative relationships with people over and over.

Glad you are here though, hope that you find the forum supportive. :)
 
Nirvana2991

Nirvana2991

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Hi,
Could you join some groups locally then you might find some like-minded people.
Sure you'll make friends here as well.
Have you been to your dr about feeling low?
Yeah I have she says I'm okay though
 
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Emma1982

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I feel the same, I'm struggling feeling low simply feeling I have no life, I know a couple of people but I don't feel connected to life feel very disconnected, I haven't been yet but considers a site called meetup
 
Nirvana2991

Nirvana2991

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I feel the same, I'm struggling feeling low simply feeling I have no life, I know a couple of people but I don't feel connected to life feel very disconnected, I haven't been yet but considers a site called meetup
I've used meet up for months I post daily on a heavy metal page but nobody seems to reply to me
 
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indigo6

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Hi Nirvana, do you have anything you like to do as a hobby? So many people meet like that. Maybe you feel too low to go out sometimes but have a think about what would suit you right now.Theres lots of gentle quiet hobbies. You have friends here, ok its not the same but were all in the same boat. Dont be alone, get on here give your opinion, give some advice. Big hug x
 
Nirvana2991

Nirvana2991

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Hi Nirvana, do you have anything you like to do as a hobby? So many people meet like that. Maybe you feel too low to go out sometimes but have a think about what would suit you right now.Theres lots of gentle quiet hobbies. You have friends here, ok its not the same but were all in the same boat. Dont be alone, get on here give your opinion, give some advice. Big hug x
Hello I like photography but have nobody to do photography with :'(
 
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indigo6

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Is there not a group you can find Nirvana? Theres groups for everything. Dont be shy, think you will find some others joined for the same reason. The shared interest is the ice breaker, its automatic conversation starter 👍
 
Nirvana2991

Nirvana2991

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Is there not a group you can find Nirvana? Theres groups for everything. Dont be shy, think you will find some others joined for the same reason. The shared interest is the ice breaker, its automatic conversation starter 👍
I am seriously anxious about meeting new people so it will be super difficult
 
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