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Feeling lonely - wouldn't be missed if i wasn't here anymore

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How do you get over feeling lonely . My family only think of each other but never me . It little stupid things like when my sister is here mum does everything for her but never does anything for me but I do all the cooking for me and my mum but mum only cooks my sister is here. .I don't think it would be a great loss for her if i wasnt around anymore
 
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Hello Sally. I can understand why you are feeling alone. It does sound like your family are not appreciating you. Have you ever tried to talk to your mum about how you are feeling?
 
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You're not alone in this experience.
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No I know what she would say . Everything always seems to be about someone else. If someone else needs something she us there but me she us not interested.
 
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That is very unfair and hurtful.
 
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I just feel so lonely . I don't mind helping people but I never get a thank you .
 
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Maybe you are not helping people who are appreciative? It could be an idea to focus on yourself and do what makes you happy.
 
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A thank you once in a while would be nice and also people assume I will help them . that is so frustrating . It has been the last 5 days or so that I have been feeling down and this pandemic is not helping one bit
 
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I personally would not help people who were not appreciative. I think it lowers our self worth.
 
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I live at home with mum. So when my sister and her kids comes around I am basically ignored . So I just go upstairs and sit in my room.
 
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I don't want to go and see my friend because she is pregnant and with this coronavirus going around I wouldn't want to pass anything on to her and the baby
 
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It is hard not to be able to see your friend. I know talking online will not be the same.
 
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