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Feeling hurt/sad/frustrated



Active member
Sep 13, 2016
I'm in the middle of a love triangle and it keeps hurting me more and more, i have severe depression, i have a secret relationship with my therapist, i love her so much, i want to be with her but she has a husband and 2 kids, for days now i feel like crying continuously and throwing up, everything is so blurry


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Staff Member on Leave
May 14, 2020
Hi Mark, that seem like a tough situation to be in and I can understand you are hurting :hug:

But have you thought about what the relationship will bring and if she will be able to give what you want and need. If it will bring more pain, you should try to find a better person because a relationship shouldn’t bring more pain.

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Hello Mark. I can imagine how much the love triangle is causing you pain. I think for your own peace of mind you would be better off ending that. Are you actually dating your therapist?

Deleted member 91323

I just looked back at some of your old posts and read your therapist kisses you and holds your hand. Mark, she is abusing her position of power over you. When we open up to a therapist we are very vulnerable and we can believe their care is love. She is taking advantage of you and damaging your mental well being. I really think you need to report her and stop seeing her. I understand you love her but what she is doing is unethical and not fair on you.


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Jul 31, 2020
Yes, she is crossing the line, could get fired or whatever for that.
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