• Hi. It’s great to see you. Welcome!

    Our forum members are people, maybe like yourself, who experience mental health difficulties or who have had them at some point in their life. Amongst our membership there is a wealth of expertise that has been developed through having to deal with mental health issues.

    We are an actively moderated forum with a team of experienced moderators. We also have a specialist safety team that works extra hard to keep the forum safe for visitors and members.

    Register now to access many more features and forums!

Feeling heartbroken

I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
I'm feeling devestated and heartbroken .I know it's just a job but I really love working at that site near home.i feel really upset that I'm having to go to other site and feel heartbroken incase it ends up being permant.i have a job interview Monday but feel devestated at prospect of leaving site I love or having this arrangement perm or being moved permanently.i spoke to my line manager about looking for new job and she just said you don't want to do that .tell them how you feel but they won't care
 
I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
I just can't stop crying it hurts so much.im fed up.of being sent to other one.i told my line manager and she said it should only be to feb and she doesn't want me to look for new job.if they ever say tell them it upsets me so.much.im worried the the last week of term I will get sent to other site:(.I don't want to go.ther at alll.i love my current site
 
LORD BURT

LORD BURT

Well-known member
Joined
Jul 8, 2013
Messages
31,166
Location
Mordor
Maybe have a cup of tea and fruitcake, and try to chill
 
I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
Thank you I remember a while ago you said that it really helped I can't stop crying
 
Mayflower7

Mayflower7

Well-known member
Moderator
Joined
Jan 4, 2013
Messages
10,788
Location
England
Hi Invisible,
Sending hugs,
Write them a letter saying that you only want to work at that site.
I hope it works out for you.
 
midnightphoenix

midnightphoenix

Well-known member
Joined
Mar 9, 2012
Messages
12,622
Location
Tigger and Willow's house UK
Why are they moving you? By this I mean why not someone else?

Maybe they think you are doing such a good job the other place needs help and cause you are doing such a good job they are sending you?

could this be possible? :grouphug:
 
I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
Thank you mayflower.do you remember years ago.how bad I was self harming and being signed off sick this was why it's coming all back to me now.sadly they don't seem to care I'm just a number just annoys me how they've done this to me.i feel like I've got such bad luck I been so happy
 
I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
It's because they ain't got enough qualified staff I hate it there it's making me so I'll .my line manager keeps saying it should only be to feb that I work at both sites and in Feb should be at just my site more like she's just fobbing me off
 
Mayflower7

Mayflower7

Well-known member
Moderator
Joined
Jan 4, 2013
Messages
10,788
Location
England
Thank you mayflower.do you remember years ago.how bad I was self harming and being signed off sick this was why it's coming all back to me now.sadly they don't seem to care I'm just a number just annoys me how they've done this to me.i feel like I've got such bad luck I been so happy
I do remember, if they won't let you work at this one place.
You might be happier somewhere else i.e. New job.
I can understand how annoyed you must feel.
 
I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
Yes I might have to sadly .my line manager keeps fobbing me off it will only be to feb sadly my line manager has to go along with what ever.feel like going to see gp I'm getting so I'll
 
I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
When I td my line manager I been emailing around she said you don't want to be doing that
 
W

Welshguy29

Member
Joined
Dec 7, 2019
Messages
11
Location
Uk
It's an old saying but a true one, when one door closes another one opens, I know it's hard to do this but try thinking this, this new one will be better if it's not I will try a new one, I found a positive mindset going in is key to anything, many sites I nearly gave up before going in but stuck it out and found some new work mates, crying wears you out and is a good relief, keep rolling with the punches, hope you feel better soon
 
I

invisible2014

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 30, 2016
Messages
1,136
Location
Ipswich
Thank you but I genuinely can't work at other site it makes me so I'll I literally go 9 hours without eating or drinking when am there .I really dislike other site will never change my mind at all
 
Mayflower7

Mayflower7

Well-known member
Moderator
Joined
Jan 4, 2013
Messages
10,788
Location
England
I'd see my GP for some help Invisible.
Hugs
 
Thread starter Similar threads Forum Replies Date
Straydog Depression Forum 7
G Depression Forum 3
D Depression Forum 3
M Depression Forum 3
I Depression Forum 21
Top