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Fear of agry people

Azelka

Azelka

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Is anyone of you getting scared people will yell or hit you when they, partner including, get mad at something or someone?
For example I am very scared when my fiance gets mad at his video games. I mean I hear his voice in my head saying about me "she fucking annoys me with her music or her series" when I watch one or listen to music, so I feel very scared and my heart beats faster
I hope you guys will understand everything because I struggle to explain things.
 
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Jake L.

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Yeah its not a nice feeling when someone in the same room is angry because it feels like it is directed at you personally even though its obviously not.
Gamers are probably one of the angriest people on the planet but their anger is directed at the game so its rarely personal.

But I'm sorry that you feel that way, wish you all the best.
 
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Ramson mash

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Im a gamer and yes we do get angry because the game always cheats and is unfair. Also being competitive is very stressful when these 12 year olds have lightning quick reflexes.
My gf likes her shows which i think are a load of rubbish thats why we have two tv's and we do our own thing. We will never be into the same stuff but we love each other.
 
Azelka

Azelka

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Some people says it comes from PTSD
 
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