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If they were cheating behind your back then I'm sure they'd be so much more sneaky about it than logging online at the same time, knowing that it's something that can be looked at and found out. Surely they'd be calling each other instead....?
Don't take this the wrong way, but are you sure you don't want to catch them out and have them admit they are cheating purely to prove to yourself you were right all along and it wasn't just your paranoia and overthinking? I say that because I get the feeling no matter what they say to deny it, you'll never believe them.
I think you either need to accept their answers that nothing is going on and try and get help to move on from this or end the relationship. You can't continue on like this, it's not good for you. You deserve to be happy and healthy, not in a state of constant distress over this situation.
Don't take this the wrong way, but are you sure you don't want to catch them out and have them admit they are cheating purely to prove to yourself you were right all along and it wasn't just your paranoia and overthinking? I say that because I get the feeling no matter what they say to deny it, you'll never believe them.
I think you either need to accept their answers that nothing is going on and try and get help to move on from this or end the relationship. You can't continue on like this, it's not good for you. You deserve to be happy and healthy, not in a state of constant distress over this situation.
