- Nov 30, 2018
- United States
So i had two friends who were my very best friends in the whole world. Like we did everything together and we told each other everything, it was really great for about 5 of the 7 years that we knew each other. As we got older and in high school things started to get really bad between us. They started to act weird for lack of a better term. They would have problems and when they would tell me about them and I tried to help them with it they would get mad at me because it wasn't something they wanted to hear. I always make it my personal rule that if someone is my friend I will tell them what they need to hear not what they want to hear (Maybe I was too harsh?) At the time I was okay with that because sometimes not everyone wants to hear it and that is fine. Over the next couple of years things really started to fall apart. They were not taking responsibility of their actions and I wasn't having any of it anymore. I had been through some stuff and I just didn't put up with BS anymore. Our friendship ended and we all went our separate ways, I finally let go of all of the negative emotions associated with them and I am doing better in that department of my life but I still wonder what if. What if we worked through our issues and came out of it, would we be better friends? Would things be different for me? Would I be somewhere else? Silly little questions like that come along every once in a while and i sometimes entertain them then let them go. I'm curious but I don't really care. They were no good for me to begin with and I'm glad they are gone.