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Hi guys. Ziggy here, new guy :D

almost two months ago my ex fiance decided that she 'couldn"t take it anymore' and decided to dump me. she suffers from bipolar. i love her very much.

we kept living together for a month and a half 'financial reasons' and now we are seperated for 11 days now. it's the first time since we got together for about 1 year and 8 months.

will she come back? i'm doing NC for the moment to try and forget her but it's hard. we were supposed to get married in december. everything hurts so much and i always want to text her to tell i'm sorry and stuff. can anyone please help me?
 
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Hi Ziggy, I’m so sorry that you have experienced this loss of your fiancé. Obviously no one here is able to tell if she will come back or not...there are many, many different factors that come
into play in these situations and each case is unique. If you would like to get back together I would make this known to her then give her plenty of time and space to consider this option. Because the engagement has already been broken I would carry on in this direction not expecting reconciliation but being open to that possibility should the opportunity arise. xo, j
 
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Hi,
I hope you both can work thru this and become stronger.
It can be very hard being ill, I'd advise to offer support but look after your own needs to.
Good luck
 
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