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Notalwaysever

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I am so sorry, I went through this last year and spent three months at a motel with my roommate and my pets. Shop around for the motel as much as you can, don’t just look online either because there are usually different “resident” rates if you call. The longer you can come up with in advance the less you will pay per night. I wish I had better advice because I know it is a lot of money to come up with. Good luck!
 
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goodgollymiss

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Maybe you could find a church to help
 
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Malfoy 13

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My weekend didnt go well sadly I'm the glue holding my family to together. Mom had a break down. My cousin want his girlfriend to come but mom does like her so she said no so that made him mad he stop talking. I had to cheer him and her up but there is noone to cheer me up. Mom accused me of taking his side.

Ive been doing some thinking and the bad thing is I do take his side. I know it's bad to say but I'm more compassionate when it comes to him. It's not something I did on purpose. We all suffer from depression and mental illness and physical ailments mom has depression, fibromyalgia. She has pain all over her body. I have borderline personality disorder and major depression and anxiety. And my cousin has. Depression and Schizophrenia. I didn't mean to take sides. I guess i lost some compassion for mom over the years because I've never been able to be on my own. I had to take care of her. Dad was evil and left us. So it was just me. I haven't really known my cousin that long. When he moved in. He always lived to far. But we had to take him in. I can't believe I said all of this if mom knew it would kill her. I feel so evil for admitting all of this.
 
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Marianda

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Nov 18, 2019
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802
Location
South America
I live in Alabama
I am so sorry, evictions are one of the hardesst things to face. Cant you rent a room in the meantime? Please try to be calm, i know its difficult but its the only way to face this situation. Maybe you can ask a friend if you can leave your stuff ( like furniture etc) in their home while you figure out this situation.
 
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Marianda

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South America
My weekend didnt go well sadly I'm the glue holding my family to together. Mom had a break down. My cousin want his girlfriend to come but mom does like her so she said no so that made him mad he stop talking. I had to cheer him and her up but there is noone to cheer me up. Mom accused me of taking his side.

Ive been doing some thinking and the bad thing is I do take his side. I know it's bad to say but I'm more compassionate when it comes to him. It's not something I did on purpose. We all suffer from depression and mental illness and physical ailments mom has depression, fibromyalgia. She has pain all over her body. I have borderline personality disorder and major depression and anxiety. And my cousin has. Depression and Schizophrenia. I didn't mean to take sides. I guess i lost some compassion for mom over the years because I've never been able to be on my own. I had to take care of her. Dad was evil and left us. So it was just me. I haven't really known my cousin that long. When he moved in. He always lived to far. But we had to take him in. I can't believe I said all of this if mom knew it would kill her. I feel so evil for admitting all of this.
Im also stuck in life for having to take care of mom who is with alzheimer and i have mixed feelings about her. And i sometimes feel guilty for those strange feelings towards mom.
 
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