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harsh-reality
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I have two mental health conditions but I have found when I was unwell for many many years my sisters and their husbands their lack of interest in my life and well being was very very distressing. My parents were supportive but some of the things one sister in particular keeps saying has had an amazingly distressing impact on my self esteem.
They did not want to know when I wasn't working - I was unwell but did get put on more long term benefits and when working I was generally ill anyhow.
I sent emails as I could not comprehend their lack of love towards me - I know people who got alcohol issues even drug problems and all their family still support so as I generally always try to look for the best in people and am kind when I struggled with losing job and friends and then my family kicked the boot in - it has been distressing over a very long period.
My siblings never rang and despite my pleas in emails they just did not want to know me - they called the police on me because they did not want me contacting them again - was unbelievably upsetting - and frightening.
It has ruined my life for a number of years - my parents support me as they do them but they have never had words with my siblings yet they just say sadly they not interested and I have to deal with it
I can't on regular occasions - i have ptsd over many aspects of these exchanges
My siblings all have big families and partner - I live alone - they do not have mental health condtions
I often feel alone
I always aim to help my friends and get them into wellbeing and then they get girlfriends and hey ho I am dust again
I dont have any confidences with women and do feel I will alwasy be on my own and my sisters aggressive emotional bullying when I been unwell and my parents ignoring the poorer aspects to my sisters behaviours and simply saying me I have to accept it - my sisters have never been brought to task over this by our parents which again is severely demoralising for me and I have an amazingly low opinion of myself because of this
Many people like my support of them but on my tod I do feel very very alone when things go wrong which they do quite regularly sadly..
its upsetting often and very depressing..
They did not want to know when I wasn't working - I was unwell but did get put on more long term benefits and when working I was generally ill anyhow.
I sent emails as I could not comprehend their lack of love towards me - I know people who got alcohol issues even drug problems and all their family still support so as I generally always try to look for the best in people and am kind when I struggled with losing job and friends and then my family kicked the boot in - it has been distressing over a very long period.
My siblings never rang and despite my pleas in emails they just did not want to know me - they called the police on me because they did not want me contacting them again - was unbelievably upsetting - and frightening.
It has ruined my life for a number of years - my parents support me as they do them but they have never had words with my siblings yet they just say sadly they not interested and I have to deal with it
I can't on regular occasions - i have ptsd over many aspects of these exchanges
My siblings all have big families and partner - I live alone - they do not have mental health condtions
I often feel alone
I always aim to help my friends and get them into wellbeing and then they get girlfriends and hey ho I am dust again
I dont have any confidences with women and do feel I will alwasy be on my own and my sisters aggressive emotional bullying when I been unwell and my parents ignoring the poorer aspects to my sisters behaviours and simply saying me I have to accept it - my sisters have never been brought to task over this by our parents which again is severely demoralising for me and I have an amazingly low opinion of myself because of this
Many people like my support of them but on my tod I do feel very very alone when things go wrong which they do quite regularly sadly..
its upsetting often and very depressing..