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LittleMissNameless

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Help! a guy just asked me out and I said yes and I'm gunna sabotage everything in my life because I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?!
My brain is already FREAKING out!
Maybe I should just cancel and then never go to the class we share again?
I also have BPD and GAD so I don't know which one is fucking with me.
If I do go
what if I say something dumb?
what if I do something dumb?
what if its awkward?
what if he makes me uncomfortable?
what if he's a bad deriver and we get in an accident?
what if I have an anxiety attack?
what if he sees me have an anxiety attack?
what if he then thinks I'm a freak?
what if he tells everyone in our class?
what if I can't go to class anymore?
fail out of university?
what if I say no and then regret it?
what if he thinks I'm a bitch?
what he's mean to me?
what if starting anything romantically is just a bad idea?
what if my dad hates him?

I'm gunna stop but I can keep going
 
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Omg it was fucking horrible
I was nervous so I ate an edible. -first mistake
Guy is into me - wants to hold my hand
Guy isn't in to me-mentions girl who recently rejected him if a week ago
Guy is into me - he wants me to hang out more -second mistake

We are at his house and in his room and I'm high at this point and the guy starts talking about how long it's been since he has sex and I'm like - oh no I fucked up!

I don't want to fuck you

He's nice about it drives me home

Excuse me while I die of humiliation before I see him in class saturday
 
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No he asked me to come over but I read it wrong he was so nice about it. But I'm dead inside
Humiliated
 
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No he asked me to come over but I read it wrong he was so nice about it. But I'm dead inside
Humiliated
Remember what we perceive as one thing others see differently so you might feel awful for misreading but he might have not even taken it with a pinch of salt and totally not thought about it.

Try to focus on other things now, get your brain elsewhere to allow it to calm down. Maybe do a puzzle or play a video game. Something that engages your brain.

Try not to worry.
 
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Sounds like he’s desperate to fuck
I think that a certain lack of respect vs. men is slowly creeping in and I'm not sure what's the source of it. That man's desperation to have sex is nowhere inferior to the OP's in my opinion mental confusion and poor decision making skills. Since 60,000 years ago when humans began spreading their genes in Africa and later on spread into Europe, annihilating the Neanderthals, men were desperate to have sex. It's written in our genomes.

One genome is not superior to the other, they are complementary. If men blame their inability to have sex on women's mental confusion and if women blame their mental confusion on men rushing them to have sex out of desperation, we will have chaos.
 
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Why can't people just say what they mean.
Like instead of "wanna come over" to "would you like to come over and have sex"
 
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Why can't people just say what they mean.
Like instead of "wanna come over" to "would you like to come over and have sex"
If a guy tells you hey Miss, I know a room upstairs that locks from the inside, wana go there and "review some documents" (then he makes the brackets sign with his fingers.)

When you go upstairs with him, would you be disappointed that he didn't want to review documents?

You're kidding right?
 
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He said wanna come over?
I asked to do what he said hang out
Lile what exactly is clear about that at all.
This isnt my mistake this guy was unclear and thats not on me.
Being direct wouldve saved us both from this humiliating expirience.
 
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Omg it was fucking horrible
I was nervous so I ate an edible. -first mistake
Guy is into me - wants to hold my hand
Guy isn't in to me-mentions girl who recently rejected him if a week ago
Guy is into me - he wants me to hang out more -second mistake

We are at his house and in his room and I'm high at this point and the guy starts talking about how long it's been since he has sex and I'm like - oh no I fucked up!

I don't want to fuck you

He's nice about it drives me home

Excuse me while I die of humiliation before I see him in class saturday
"Ate an edible" not sure what that means, sorry due to my learning difficulty I don't always make the right connections in my brain, sorry if I'm missing something :unsure:

idk how eating food would cause a problem :unsure:

I agree that people should be clear about what they want :grouphug:

I hope he doesn't give you a hard time in class at all over it :hug:
 
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"Ate an edible" not sure what that means, sorry due to my learning difficulty I don't always make the right connections in my brain, sorry if I'm missing something :unsure:

idk how eating food would cause a problem :unsure:

I agree that people should be clear about what they want :grouphug:

I hope he doesn't give you a hard time in class at all over it :hug:
I was high. I ate marijuana infused chocolate