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Dreadful day

SwanLake

SwanLake

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I’ve certainly had better days. Having already lost one sister it won’t be long before my other sister dies as well. She’s critically ill and her weight has dropped to under six stone. Poor woman can hardly breathe.
Anyway if that wasn’t bad enough, I didn’t quite recover fast enough, or probably caused too much damage when I was ill, to save my marriage. After 32 years together we’ve decided to part.
At least having made a semblance of a recovery I can look at these events as very sad, but I’m not suffering or suicidal, I don’t have any sense of abandonment, I’m just left thinking what’s the fucking point of anything.
Sorry to ramble.
 
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Jules5

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Hi Lunus sorry about your sister. 32 years is a long time to be in a marriage. Life can deal us some bad hands. Wishing you well Jules
 
Luci

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The way you feel is totally understandable
It is terribly sad to hear about your sister, my condolences at this difficult time ♡
Start of a new chapter for you.... you are very strong and resilient. Process what is happening and begin your recovery when you are back at full strength.
We are always here for you ♡
:hug: :love:
 
SwanLake

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Hi Lunus sorry about your sister. 32 years is a long time to be in a marriage. Life can deal us some bad hands. Wishing you well Jules
Thanks Jules. 👊
 
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EstherRose94

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I’m so sorry Lunus. You’ve helped me steer clear of bad decisions before I’ve made them more than once and I’ll always be grateful to you for that. You’re a really great person. You’ll always have us here. :hug:
 
SwanLake

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I’m so sorry Lunus. You’ve helped me steer clear of bad decisions before I’ve made them more than once and I’ll always be grateful to you for that. You’re a really great person. You’ll always have us here. :hug:
Many thx. I’m ok and still around to help. x
 
Lunar Lady

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Oh Lunus - just caught up with your news.

How are you holding up? :hug1:
 
SwanLake

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Oh Lunus - just caught up with your news.

How are you holding up? :hug1:
I’m a bit numb if I’m honest but thankfully I’m keeping out of the grief stricken suffering. I’ll be ok thx.
 
Lunar Lady

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I’m a bit numb if I’m honest but thankfully I’m keeping out of the grief stricken suffering. I’ll be ok thx.
Here for you, buddy. Anytime x
 
midnightphoenix

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Hi Lunus I only just seen this, I am so sorry about your sister and your marriage, we're all here for you, you are wonderful and strong :grouphug:
 
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