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George10111

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Everywhere I go in my life everyone ends up hating me. Nobody wants to take me seriously or even listen. I've had a bad relationship with people in general all my life, because I've been singled out more, ostracized, bullied and shamed. My friends won't even answer my calls, or texts anymore. My own family ignores me. I'm starting to truly feel like a worthless human being, more so then ever before. I spend all my time in my room, or in the wilderness. I honestly don't want to live around human beings anymore, the ones who have made me hate myself. The ones who punish me for being me. Every time I start to get better something or somebody completely sabotages my self esteem. Every time I interact with people its a struggle. Even here I feel like I'm talking to myself. I took a break for awhile and nobody answered except one, when I came back. If I'm not welcome here I just won't come back at all. Clearly nobody gives a fucking damn. Just suspend my account already obviously nobody even cares. Its not like its going to matter after I'm gone anyway.
 
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pinscher chi

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Hi George I am sorry you are feeling so negative. What is your mental health diagnosis? Do your family and friends know you have mental health issues?
 
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BetaMale

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Honestly, I'm a loner myself and have no relationships outside immediate family members. Also, you're not worthless; please remember that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. (Eleanor Roosevelt)
 
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Valka

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People do tend to be selfish, it's just the way society is these days. Of course not all people, but it only takes a few muppets to ruin the outlook on everyone for you.
The best advice I can give is to simply ignore people who are negative or could cause drama for you. And focus on self improvement, become the person you'd want to interact with sort of thing.

I've been bitter in the past. And it got me stuck in the same position for many, many months.

As for people not responding on the forum, that just happens to be a thing on most forums I find. Either people don't know what to reply with and just don't know what to say. Which is why the 'like' on this forum is quite a good idea. Let's people know you've read, acknowledged / understood the person's post and they're not being ignored.
 
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amy100

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I could have written so much of what you said. I'm new, but I answered :)
I struggle with relationships too.
what do you think might help? im sure people do care. they probably dont know what to do?
 
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Jules5

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You are not alone on this forum. People do care about you and I am glad you are talking about how you are feeling right now-maybe we can reach out and give you the right words to make you feel better. Sending lots of hugs
 
Meet me in the dark

Meet me in the dark

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Everywhere I go in my life everyone ends up hating me. Nobody wants to take me seriously or even listen. I've had a bad relationship with people in general all my life, because I've been singled out more, ostracized, bullied and shamed. My friends won't even answer my calls, or texts anymore. My own family ignores me. I'm starting to truly feel like a worthless human being, more so then ever before. I spend all my time in my room, or in the wilderness. I honestly don't want to live around human beings anymore, the ones who have made me hate myself. The ones who punish me for being me. Every time I start to get better something or somebody completely sabotages my self esteem. Every time I interact with people its a struggle. Even here I feel like I'm talking to myself. I took a break for awhile and nobody answered except one, when I came back. If I'm not welcome here I just won't come back at all. Clearly nobody gives a fucking damn. Just suspend my account already obviously nobody even cares. Its not like its going to matter after I'm gone anyway.
Here for you, George. I'm in a similar situation. I don't have many words right now but I want you to know that you're not worthless & you deserve better in life.
 
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