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does anyone else get so preoccupied over minor things people do? and start hating yourself so much thinking that no one likes you.

maggie0123

maggie0123

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It's so hard for me to socialize with new people. I think growing up i never really struggled with making friends, but now i am older it's just so bad. i start thinking that no one likes me, and i'm so annoying or when I have to talk or meet new people my face would flush so bad and i start feeling warm, and my heart starts beating.
 
arodi007

arodi007

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same here, had no issues with making friends before, i struggle a lot trying to make friends or just to integrate in a team with my colleagues.

i change my environment and lifestyle and also my way of thinking, i do blush less now with strangers or even with my family. And am completely fine having just close friends or family.

i say u gotta find your own technique to counter those thought, for me as eg, whenever i get a negative tho, i tell to my myself, there better things i have to worry about or i wont let my past define my present.
 
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karl7

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im the same. im friendless and dont know how to make friends. i dont know what people talk about and i always feel excluded and looked down upon when with other people.....by the way welcome to the forum
 
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