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Divulged my OCD thoughts to psych now feel really really down and out...

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Divulged my OCD thoughts to psych now feel really really down and out...

Saw my Psych today told her the extent of some of my OCD thoughts now I am really really down and anxious, thinking that everyone will find out how much of a messed up person I am and my wife will leave me and think i'm a psycho.:cry2: Getting thoughts of just ending it all cause of those thoughts, I just want them to end!!!!:curseyou::curseyou::curseyou:
 
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first shes been with you however long now with you being you

my wife stayed through the dark years and still stays through the dark hours i still have

and if its a one on on with shrink counselor they cannot violate your privacy rights

we have to sign a release form to get our records ours they have to follow rules or get shut down or other trouble

and how are you messed up we just obese about things run rituals whatever how is that messed up the normal people are the ones with problems first problem they think there normal

i always rinse my cups just washed whatever whose to say thats not a benefit

i hate revolving doors and only use empty elevators that might be a benefit those dam cramped spinners lock at times

elevator ocd hey peaceful time to relax with out annoying smelly people

nobody is broke or bad we just live different and better than so called normal because we admit and try to fix and better our self's

and i would put money on your wife dont care how long she been with you ocd habits dont just hide shes seen it or heard it unless deaf dumb and blind

sit down talk with her tell her shes your partner in life your life support and anchor the person to vent to and her to you

take the chance and talk it over im sure you will be surprised what you find

good luck
 
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People aren't going to find out what you've said to your psychiatrist, it's all confidential. If you don't tell your wife she won't know, and even if you did I'm sure she won't leave you. Obsessive thoughts are just that - thoughts. You aren't going to act on them and you clearly don't want them, so nobody would be right to judge you for having them, when it's obviously out of your control. I think telling your psych your thoughts was really brave and a big step.
 
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thats wrong and not a marriage if there are secrets

marriage is sharing helping and other long list of stuff

why did you marry if just to hide secrets my wife and i are open books we never worry about cheating im home 8 hours plenty to worry about

we are open so there is no worry or trust issues

she withing a week or so of meeting was told my disorders

she got me to go get proper treatment and team of doc shrink counselor

she has put up with screaming throwing and breaking stuff including some of her collectables

unless witch there are many types of ocd your one who obsess about boobs or something silent she has seen the rituals or compulsions you have

shes been this long like i already stated sit down it hurts its painful but if shes the right woman she will understand and possibly say i know or thanks etc

but a marriage to work has to be open or its a bed of never ending lies thats why divorce is so high now compared to past

lies not getting to know the heart the inside and no trust
 
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thanks all i didnt quite come out and tell my wife the exact thoughts imwas having but showed her a couple things on P-OCD to give her a bit of an insight.

I know my wife is very understanding and anything i told her would be OK i was just feeling it last night really bad after seeing my psych and opening up a little which is very very hard to do with the thoughts i have at the moment and my paranoia
 
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