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Carol1952

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WHy do we have to suffer like this?.Crying angry.confused I was fine half of the day my care giver came and i was fine but when she left i just got very angry and started to cry.I am trying to get insurance for my care giver well i called them up i felt so stupid ,i did nt know what to say then she gives me this number to call it didnt work i had four different numbers to call press this press that i had enough of this shit.I dont have time to deal with this crap.I bet my caregiver will be mad at me.I cant help it i cannot deal with talking on the phone i get all tongue tied then i have to tell the person i i have server anxieties they dont care.I didnt even know what to say.I could tell that the woman was getting a little mad.NOw I am shaking .I just feel like I am going to break down,this depression sucks.I cant go out and leave the house.So I am stuck inside every day.It is drving me crazy.
 
Wishbone

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Hi Carol, do you have an official diagnosis at all?
 
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Hi Carol.
I'm really sorry your feeling depressed, its a horrid illness.
Your caregiver will understand, lots of us get nervy on the phone , I stutter like anything.
Phonecalls are a pain now with all this press one or press two.
Maybe try again in a few days or maybe your friend can do it for you .

Best wishes
And take care
:grouphug:
 
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Hi, it's hard. You tried and that was good. Sometimes trying feels worse. I start to shake too when trying makes things worse. It's worse for that moment or day. I don't think your caregiver will be upset and shouldn't be. I go blank on what to say sometimes too. I've done that in front of a crowd. It's been an ongoing problem forever. Silence when there is something that need saying is frustrating. Next time might be better. Hope you have a good and peaceful night. You can try again another day. ❤❤
 
Carol1952

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Hi Carol.
I'm really sorry your feeling depressed, its a horrid illness.
Your caregiver will understand, lots of us get nervy on the phone , I stutter like anything.
Phonecalls are a pain now with all this press one or press two.
Maybe try again in a few days or maybe your friend can do it for you .

Best wishes
And take care
:grouphug:
I just cant deal with talking to people on the phone the woman was nice she told me that she understands when i told her i have anxieties i was crying,to be i think the place was giving me the runaround.maybe lori can call when she is here next week i hope she doesnt get mad.I couldnt get my own kids to help me.I just said I dont know when they asked me what i wanted i just froze on the phone.if she doesnt want to do it then i wont bother
 
Carol1952

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Hi, it's hard. You tried and that was good. Sometimes trying feels worse. I start to shake too when trying makes things worse. It's worse for that moment or day. I don't think your caregiver will be upset and shouldn't be. I go blank on what to say sometimes too. I've done that in front of a crowd. It's been an ongoing problem forever. Silence when there is something that need saying is frustrating. Next time might be better. Hope you have a good and peaceful night. You can try again another day. ❤❤
It is very hard i broke down when i talked to this woman this morning i dont even know what i am suppose to ask for.i tried but i just dont know.i feel like i was getting the run around anyway.
 
Wishbone

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yes i als0 got bipolar and a mood disorder too.
Bipolar and Depression are mood disorders; did you mean mood disorder or personality disorder or something else even?
 
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