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Dooley

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I wish i had someone to visit me now and again. Social anxiety, i am a bag of nerves when i go out.
Sitting here on my own listening to the firework. People having a good time.
Depression is kicking in again.
Aaaaaarrrrggggghhhh
 
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Hi Dooley You could try phoning a friend or relative a good chat can work wonders.Also there are many members on here that will talk with you Maybe your your Doctor can prescribe something to help you through this time :havingfun:
 
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Hi, got no friends in this area . Neighbours don't talk to me. Got know relatives other than my wife over in USA. On medication for various things including Depression/Social anxiety. I am ok. Have to be. Plodding on, taking each day as it comes. I am just thinking positive and ahead because i know the future will be a lot better once we are together again. As for the present, i am hanging on.
 
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Dooley just keep on hanging as you are doing The Laws of the Universe will work for you soon. :havingfun:
 
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I wish the law of the USA would lift the remainder of my 10yr ban and let me back in with my family. But, bite without money i can't do a thing. Never mind!
 
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Hi Dooley What is this 10 year ban about can they stop you seeing your family?Is it because you owe money? :havingfun:
 
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Hi, i am from the UK. 15yrs ago i met a woman truck driver online. She came here to meet me. Then when i went over there i just stayed with her on the truck driving all over the US delivering and picking up from various places. I hid in a compartment in the truck when they searched the truck at weigh stations. A dream come true. But, even though we started off doing it properly, she coming here, me going there , in the end my 90 day visa waiver entry ended up being 6 years illegal alien. I was an overstay. I came back here because my mam was dying, if she was still alive then i would still be in the US now. Anyway, i came back. After the funeral they wouldnt let me back in. 10yrs. 7 yrs later they are still saying no you cannot visit the USA on the 90 dsys visa waiver. They said after the remaining 3 years is up, the only way they will let me in is to apply for a viss, prove i can support myself and then once in i MUST get a job and pay taxes. They said they think i will do what i did last time and enter and just stay illegally. So if i dont stay legally and pay taxes, i have to get out.
Pah! But, in 3 years time i will do just that. There are loads of jobs in Walmart, Kroger and other stores. Anything will do. 3 year wsit though.
 
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Hi Dooley The way I see it your best bet is to try to explain fully your predicament to the border control authorities they are human beings like us and MAY listen to you and help you sort this out. The British Ambasidor may help you. Let us know how it goes and Good Luck
 
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Hi, i am from the UK. 15yrs ago i met a woman truck driver online. She came here to meet me. Then when i went over there i just stayed with her on the truck driving all over the US delivering and picking up from various places. I hid in a compartment in the truck when they searched the truck at weigh stations. A dream come true. But, even though we started off doing it properly, she coming here, me going there , in the end my 90 day visa waiver entry ended up being 6 years illegal alien. I was an overstay. I came back here because my mam was dying, if she was still alive then i would still be in the US now. Anyway, i came back. After the funeral they wouldnt let me back in. 10yrs. 7 yrs later they are still saying no you cannot visit the USA on the 90 dsys visa waiver. They said after the remaining 3 years is up, the only way they will let me in is to apply for a viss, prove i can support myself and then once in i MUST get a job and pay taxes. They said they think i will do what i did last time and enter and just stay illegally. So if i dont stay legally and pay taxes, i have to get out.
Pah! But, in 3 years time i will do just that. There are loads of jobs in Walmart, Kroger and other stores. Anything will do. 3 year wsit though.
I'm from the US but live in the UK now. I had to go through the immigration process and it's a NIGHTMARE isn't it? Never been through something so damn frustrating in my life!
 
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On my behalf, my wife saw an immigration lawyer over there and explained the situation. It was the lawyer that got back to my wife and told her that no way will i be allowed back in the USA unless i work and pay taxes. The lawyer said she would help fill in the application form and word it so that i can get through. She then said i must pass the million and one questions fired at me and if i pass that then i have to show that i can support myself. Then, i must get a job and pay their taxes. Thats what the immigration people decided. The lawyer waas very helpful but said for me, this is what i had to do. Anyway, my wife will be back here in the UK to be with me next year and will renew her Visa to stay here in the UK. So thats good.
 
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