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Dating Relationship Went Bad, Don't Know What To Do

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LOSTINAMERICA

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Last year I met a girl and we really hit it off. We would talk for hours at her work, on the phone, through text. Tall, beautiful, funny the girl of my dreams. She was busy with work and a charity she is with that goes around the world so I didn't get to see her much but when we did meet up it was WOW. Sometimes we'd spend whole weekends together too not just evenings or nights.

And then I lost my job last month so I started making plans to leave the state and start a new job. Told her that we get along great so let's get together and put a down payment on a house or something.

Except the reason I only saw her sometimes is that she is married and her husband found out so he convinced him I'm a stalker. And I didn't know she was married it never occurred to me to look her up on the Internet I just figured she was honest from the start.

I don't know what to do. During my 20s I was always down and things were finally picking up and now I'm in the gutter all over again. It's just not fair and I don't know what to do.
 
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LOSTINAMERICA

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Thanks I've always been lonely and she did and said everything I have secretly dreamed about now I feel awful and might have to get back on meds. I had just kicked off all meds a year ago and I was doing great too.
 
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LOSTINAMERICA

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I mean she laughed at my jokes told me I was handsome and smart we rented a big room at the grand Sierra we went shopping together and she helped me pick stuff out and it was all bullshit I just don't get it. It's been years since I dated and this is what I get
 
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