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Critical Christmas


Tabby 88

Mum is here. Not much more i can tell you. I bend over backwards, she opens her mouth and out comes words that make me want to kill myself. Every year, every day, me in tears, her angry with me for something i seem to have done although i go to so much effort and am so careful it is never good enough. Not only is it not good enough, you would think i had done something evil. Jekyll and Hyde, i am a perfect daughter apparently, and then i am not only the most awful daughter in the world but the most awful person in the world too. No wonder i am a fucking mess in the head.
Fairy Lucretia

Fairy Lucretia

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Apr 9, 2011
Magical fairy wonderland xxxx
oh sweetie ,that sounds so hard x parents have a lot to answer for sometimes
how long is she staying with you?
remember how much we care about you on here ,i know you to be a kind ,caring lovely person
don't ever doubt how special you are
love Lu x

Tabby 88

I have been behaving like nothing is wrong and continuing to be nice and hospitable and enjoy my christmas. She seems to be going along with it too and possibly having a nice time. So far so good. Maybe it is because i told her straight that she was wrong. Maybe it sunk in? I was polite but firm and then left the room so i did not hear her response.

She will be here for 2 nights, so goes home boxing day although not sure what time. I am trying to keep busy and keep the place tidy.