I'm sorry if this seems a stupid question as I don't know anything about him. But does he understand what you're going through? Like not just know, but understand? My boyfriend seemed like he didn't care until he understood what it's like for me. He also thought it was better to not say anything at all than say something generic, which I believe the complete opposite. So it was just a misunderstanding. What I'm trying to say is perhaps he thinks he makes things worse or simply has no idea how to help?
However if he's mean to you, turns things around on you and ignores you then you can do so much better.