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Crazy Lady In Stanton
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What do you do when you're disabled and your "carer" is an asshole? I feel guilty for saying it, as I feel like I'm being disloyal, but my husband/carer is frequently an asshole. I need his help to survive, but his behavior often makes me unhappy. For example, this morning I woke up to him screaming about the spices being disorganized. Yesterday, he kept cutting me off and impugning my character every time I opened my mouth. Another example, he was upset about something, so I said something to try to comfort him, and he began to tell me what a bitch I was. One moment I'm feeling love for him, the next he's telling me what a bitch I am. The first few years we were together I used to cry when he was cruel. Now I just don't care as much. It's like even though I love him very much, a part of my heart is hardened towards him because he's been an asshole to me for so long.
I can't leave him. He's the only real family I have.
I can't leave him. He's the only real family I have.