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justpeace
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hello everyone
I've been in my new home for 6 months now. It is my first home (from moving out from my parents) which I have moved into with my fiancee.
I feel as though I'm trapped in a nightmare which I have no escape. I get anxious from just being in the house. We live over the road from a newsagents and butchers and we get cars pulling in all the time and slamming their car doors from 6am, it just feels like loud noise to me and it feels like it gets louder all the time.
I find it difficult to relax and just watch television or do something. Also we have a family of four next to us and they make quite a bit of noise banging about and a young kid that shouts too and that also affects me and Iam really struggling to ignore it and get on with my life. I can't sleep at night now and have to wear earplugs to block out the noise from next door and outside.
My fiancee is able to ignore and block it all out and manage just fine, why can't I? I feel as though I've made the biggest mistake moving here. I just feel like walking away from it all but I couldn't bare to lose my fiancee or worse I feel like killing myself. The doctors don't care and don't help.
I'm about to start a course of hypnotherapy, my therapist thinks he can help resolve my anxieties.
Has anybody felt the same? I feel so stupid for feeling like this.
Thanks
I've been in my new home for 6 months now. It is my first home (from moving out from my parents) which I have moved into with my fiancee.
I feel as though I'm trapped in a nightmare which I have no escape. I get anxious from just being in the house. We live over the road from a newsagents and butchers and we get cars pulling in all the time and slamming their car doors from 6am, it just feels like loud noise to me and it feels like it gets louder all the time.
I find it difficult to relax and just watch television or do something. Also we have a family of four next to us and they make quite a bit of noise banging about and a young kid that shouts too and that also affects me and Iam really struggling to ignore it and get on with my life. I can't sleep at night now and have to wear earplugs to block out the noise from next door and outside.
My fiancee is able to ignore and block it all out and manage just fine, why can't I? I feel as though I've made the biggest mistake moving here. I just feel like walking away from it all but I couldn't bare to lose my fiancee or worse I feel like killing myself. The doctors don't care and don't help.
I'm about to start a course of hypnotherapy, my therapist thinks he can help resolve my anxieties.
Has anybody felt the same? I feel so stupid for feeling like this.
Thanks