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invisible2014

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I'm so fed up no one seems to understand ive just realised how short life is and I'm not coping without Barney and like people have said my was off grieving is by like people have said thinking about getting another German shepherd and its the only the way I can concentrate and no one else seems to agree with me
 
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Hi Invisible,
I understand your loss as I've lost cats, dogs and other animals. You'll know when the time is right to have another dog. I waited ages, which was silly as having a new pet really helped.
The only people that will understand are those that have lost pets.
Hope you feel better soon.
Take care
 
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I feel the same way. I lost my sweet Ciara and I don't know what to do or think. It's painful. I'm trying to distract myself, but I keep looking at photos of her and watching cat videos.

I'm wishing you the best. Good luck. :goodluck: :hug:
 
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Hi Invisible,
I understand your loss as I've lost cats, dogs and other animals. You'll know when the time is right to have another dog. I waited ages, which was silly as having a new pet really helped.
The only people that will understand are those that have lost pets.
Hope you feel better soon.
Take care
Thankyou mayflower its like I'm not being disrespectful to Barney I would do anything to have him here but as I realised its no going to.happen no matter how much I wish or pray so I feel I need to think about getting one not to.replace Barney but to give me a purpose someone to look after love and some are telling me not to be disrespectful to Barney but I'm not ive only just realised how short life actually is and anything can happen so need to make most off life but doesn't mean ive forgotten Barney I love him and always will just wish people would realise I'm not being disrespectful at all
 
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I feel the same way. I lost my sweet Ciara and I don't know what to do or think. It's painful. I'm trying to distract myself, but I keep looking at photos of her and watching cat videos.

I'm wishing you the best. Good luck. :goodluck: :hug:
I'm so so sorry to hear about your loss off Ciara,its so painful isn't here if you want to talk anytime I completely understand what your going through,just drop me a pm or message on here
 
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spiritfriend

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I'm so so sorry to hear about your loss off Ciara,its so painful isn't here if you want to talk anytime I completely understand what your going through,just drop me a pm or message on here
Thank you very much. I'm here too if you ever need to talk. x

:hug:
 
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