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LostinSpace
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I am very worried about my wife and children.
my wife and I have a very difficult relationship she is forever pushing people away. she quickly makes a relationship and the pushes the existing one away. so far she has now pushed away all her family and now me. things have gotten so bad I have moved out intoa hotel. last night I went to look after our 8 year old daughter we had a row and she took my daughter away to the pub where she works apparently she was looked after by a new friend (male) who has been known to us for some time however she has never had him as a close firend they refer to each other as brother and sister. he has a prison record, smokes dope and has just come out of a volatile relationship and he was able to take my daughter to his house and look after her. today she has been prescribed anti depressants sleeping tablets and counselling. the issues are about her childhood I have asked her to get help yet it she says it does not work. She has pushed away her father and has moded an aged man with parkinsons into the father she wants he runs her everywhere. are main problems started when she was going through her teenage daughters diary and found a paragraph that said "dad is cross me again I don't like it and get scared when he is cross", she took the diaryfrom her daughter and hid it she was so upset that her mum had done this. Everytime we had a row she would say your daughter is scared of you and i have the proof. this has been going on for 3 years. she tries to get her daughter ( I use her daughter as she is my step daughter yet we are like father and daughter) to tell me she is scared of of me and when she says she wont she then says that it is because she is too scared to say it. she says I mentally abuse her. all the friends she is making seem to have issues and they are feeding off each other.
my 8 year old daughter has just phoned me asking when she is going to see me and I can't tell her. she then asked me if i had a padlock she could have and i said no why? her reply "I am writing a diary!"
her father is going to speak to her tonight as he is very angry about what has been going on. my wife had told me not to tell him years ago as he would not thank me for troubling him with our problems. he was annoyed when i told him but for not telling him earlier.
However i am getting franticly worried about the children especially my youngest.
does anyone have any suggestions?
my wife and I have a very difficult relationship she is forever pushing people away. she quickly makes a relationship and the pushes the existing one away. so far she has now pushed away all her family and now me. things have gotten so bad I have moved out intoa hotel. last night I went to look after our 8 year old daughter we had a row and she took my daughter away to the pub where she works apparently she was looked after by a new friend (male) who has been known to us for some time however she has never had him as a close firend they refer to each other as brother and sister. he has a prison record, smokes dope and has just come out of a volatile relationship and he was able to take my daughter to his house and look after her. today she has been prescribed anti depressants sleeping tablets and counselling. the issues are about her childhood I have asked her to get help yet it she says it does not work. She has pushed away her father and has moded an aged man with parkinsons into the father she wants he runs her everywhere. are main problems started when she was going through her teenage daughters diary and found a paragraph that said "dad is cross me again I don't like it and get scared when he is cross", she took the diaryfrom her daughter and hid it she was so upset that her mum had done this. Everytime we had a row she would say your daughter is scared of you and i have the proof. this has been going on for 3 years. she tries to get her daughter ( I use her daughter as she is my step daughter yet we are like father and daughter) to tell me she is scared of of me and when she says she wont she then says that it is because she is too scared to say it. she says I mentally abuse her. all the friends she is making seem to have issues and they are feeding off each other.
my 8 year old daughter has just phoned me asking when she is going to see me and I can't tell her. she then asked me if i had a padlock she could have and i said no why? her reply "I am writing a diary!"
her father is going to speak to her tonight as he is very angry about what has been going on. my wife had told me not to tell him years ago as he would not thank me for troubling him with our problems. he was annoyed when i told him but for not telling him earlier.
However i am getting franticly worried about the children especially my youngest.
does anyone have any suggestions?