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DebbieAsh
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Sometimes i think that our relationships or friendships can be doing us more harm than good???
Maybe the friend or parter are getting what they want from us, so they are happy, but they dont always give us what we need, some people need more affection than others or just need to hear that they look nice etc...it should not mean that you are paranoid! & when we dont get it, we feel rejected, which leads to anxiety & self harming, which makes me really think, do we really have all these disorders??? or are our friends or partners really right for us?
I started self harming at 13 & 2 years ago i stopped, i tried everything that the doctor suggested & it did not work, till i myself took the ball by the horns & said nobody will ever make me feel like this again, so when i get things that im not happy about in my friendship or relationships, i walk away, as i feel that nobody is worth cutting myself for
Maybe the friend or parter are getting what they want from us, so they are happy, but they dont always give us what we need, some people need more affection than others or just need to hear that they look nice etc...it should not mean that you are paranoid! & when we dont get it, we feel rejected, which leads to anxiety & self harming, which makes me really think, do we really have all these disorders??? or are our friends or partners really right for us?
I started self harming at 13 & 2 years ago i stopped, i tried everything that the doctor suggested & it did not work, till i myself took the ball by the horns & said nobody will ever make me feel like this again, so when i get things that im not happy about in my friendship or relationships, i walk away, as i feel that nobody is worth cutting myself for

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