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riverofdragons
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I am hoping that I can get some advice please.
I know I sometimes have problems with boundaries, but I am working on it. My main problem is understanding when I am overstepping.
I live with my xbf who is my best friend and his girlfriend. He is also my carer. They have been away for a couple of days and are due back today. I text this morning to find out roughly what time they are coming back but didn't get a reply, but the signal is patchy where they are.
I just started to write another text and thought about calling. BUT it has just occured to me that from their point of view I might have no right to know when they will be back.
Is it reasonable for me to want to know or is this one of the times i need to step back?
I know I sometimes have problems with boundaries, but I am working on it. My main problem is understanding when I am overstepping.
I live with my xbf who is my best friend and his girlfriend. He is also my carer. They have been away for a couple of days and are due back today. I text this morning to find out roughly what time they are coming back but didn't get a reply, but the signal is patchy where they are.
I just started to write another text and thought about calling. BUT it has just occured to me that from their point of view I might have no right to know when they will be back.
Is it reasonable for me to want to know or is this one of the times i need to step back?