- Jul 3, 2008
our family is twisted up around my sister's behavioral disorder. mood swings, rages, lies, hoarding... we are all adults, mother elderly.... 1 brother disabled... we are all caregivers... sister living in with them.... i live next door....it's becoming daily torment. How to approach her, do i enlist her kids?, she and her husband estranged, its affecting everyone... Have the book 'walking on eggshells'.... all symptoms are there....but there is no approaching her.....she says everyone else is dysfunctional. it's getting worse, outbursts more frequent... verbally attacks Mother... unprovoked. Mother won't say anything... worried about caregiving of disabled brother... wants to 'keep the peace' but there is no such thing. i appreciate any advice.