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Been threatened, stomache aches

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Ramson mash

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So a long story short. Someone has threatened to come round to my house in the next hour. A very overweieght aggressive drug dealer in fact. My stomache is churning but im ready for him. It might mean the end of my life as i know it. But no one can threaten my family at my house. I hope it doesnt escalate too much to be honest.
 
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So sorry RB it must be scary for you. Do you owe this person money is that why they want to come round. Do you have any friends that would come round to be with you. Is it possible for you to contact the police.
 
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my first thought was phone the police, dont wait for him to arrive and is it possible for you and your family to get out of there if your in danger and get somewhere safe that he does not know about :hug:
 
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So sorry RB it must be scary for you. Do you owe this person money is that why they want to come round. Do you have any friends that would come round to be with you. Is it possible for you to contact the police.

Hi daffy

No i dont owe anything. I just asked for a top up and he fipped out and we had a row. He was very aggressive saying hes gunna do this and that to me. I really dont want trouble to be honest but i told him if he comes round i will stick him, i am bluffing i dont want to do that, but i have to protect myself and family.
I cant phone police unfortunately although i dont really have any backup right now, who knows whats gunna happen, i will try to keep my cool.
 
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my first thought was phone the police, dont wait for him to arrive and is it possible for you and your family to get out of there if your in danger and get somewhere safe that he does not know about :hug:
Im not sure of his capabilities Midnight, im told not to mess with him but im not sure what he will do to my house if im not there.
 
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He could be bluffing just to make you sweat.

If he approaches your house - record everything on your phone, audio & visual.

Talk to him out of an upstairs window.

If he gets lairy and unpleasant - call the police. It's clearly harassment if you haven't opened the door - if you get into a scuffle with him, you can't be the innocent party.

Try and relax - the best way to protect your family is to keep the door locked. xx
 
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He could be bluffing just to make you sweat.

If he approaches your house - record everything on your phone, audio & visual.

Talk to him out of an upstairs window.

If he gets lairy and unpleasant - call the police. It's clearly harassment if you haven't opened the door - if you get into a scuffle with him, you can't be the innocent party.

Try and relax - the best way to protect your family is to keep the door locked. xx
I think thats sound advice Lunar. My mates just rang me. Apparently he will ring me tomorrow when he's calmed down. Truth is he still wants my business. But its a little awkward now.
Im glad he never came round because i wasnt sure what would happen.
 
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Don't get yourself into trouble, he's not worth it.
Do not answer the door, ignore him. He will go away.
Take care
 
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Glad it is over. there are some right nutjobs around. talk about exploding about nothing.
 
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Thank you all for the advice and support. I feel okay now. Not had a scare like that for a while. Us lads need some sense aswell when it comes to these things. So thank you everyone.
 
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