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The past is the past. I don't know you but i am sure you have done nothing worse than anybody else. I have done bad stuff and said bad stuff but that was the past.
We need to keep moving forwards and keep improving as we go. Don't look back too much. Acknowledge to yourself what has happened and why, then move on, being better/more well, as you go.
We need to keep moving forwards and keep improving as we go. Don't look back too much. Acknowledge to yourself what has happened and why, then move on, being better/more well, as you go.
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Hi midnight,
I don't know so much of your past as I haven't been around long, but I understand how your feeling. My wife told me she wanted a divorce, my confidence has been shattered since. I've only had a handful of relationships in my life and each of them ended with my significant other 'running off' so to speak. They seem to find new people aweful fast, it took me 6 years last time and I have little confidence this time even though it hasn't been long yet.
I try to remind myself its OK to be alone, in fact I think I may just have a fear of being alone so even just working on being alone seems worthwhile.
I hope that helps my friend.
I don't know so much of your past as I haven't been around long, but I understand how your feeling. My wife told me she wanted a divorce, my confidence has been shattered since. I've only had a handful of relationships in my life and each of them ended with my significant other 'running off' so to speak. They seem to find new people aweful fast, it took me 6 years last time and I have little confidence this time even though it hasn't been long yet.
I try to remind myself its OK to be alone, in fact I think I may just have a fear of being alone so even just working on being alone seems worthwhile.
I hope that helps my friend.
You have that little cat there? I bet he/she was so sad to know that you were in distress. They can sense that i think. Whenever i felt in too much distress, i would lay down by my cat and stroke her. They can really calm you.
I don't have a partner and always felt too damaged like you say you are, but years later, i think i would make a good girlfriend or wife. I cannot cope with the children thing or a full life but there is someone i am sure, who is similar to me or would like to have me for company, one day. If not, it is fine, there are always cats
just go with life wherever it takes you and don't worry about what you don't have.
I don't have a partner and always felt too damaged like you say you are, but years later, i think i would make a good girlfriend or wife. I cannot cope with the children thing or a full life but there is someone i am sure, who is similar to me or would like to have me for company, one day. If not, it is fine, there are always cats
just go with life wherever it takes you and don't worry about what you don't have.
You have that little cat there? I bet he/she was so sad to know that you were in distress. They can sense that i think. Whenever i felt in too much distress, i would lay down by my cat and stroke her. They can really calm you.
I don't have a partner and always felt too damaged like you say you are, but years later, i think i would make a good girlfriend or wife. I cannot cope with the children thing or a full life but there is someone i am sure, who is similar to me or would like to have me for company, one day. If not, it is fine, there are always cats just go with life wherever it takes you and don't worry about what you don't have.
I don't have a partner and always felt too damaged like you say you are, but years later, i think i would make a good girlfriend or wife. I cannot cope with the children thing or a full life but there is someone i am sure, who is similar to me or would like to have me for company, one day. If not, it is fine, there are always cats
just go with life wherever it takes you and don't worry about what you don't have.
not sure where my younger one has decided to go for a snooze, maybe snuggling her teddy in her carrier idk
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