I have never been diagnosed with a mental illness although my family and some relatives believe I am. Heres 1 sign of this. We all gathered at my parents home for thanksgiving and during conversation my adult neice pointed her finger right at me as she was talking about how insane her ex-husband used to be. If anyone ever points their finger at you as they are insulting or talking about someone else, it is very likely that they are referring to you but pretending that they are referring to someone else as a mind play of letting you know that they think you are mentally ill. In the event that you actually accuse that person of doing this on purpose, they will always deny it because you cannot expect a phony person to tell the truth. How many agree with me about this? Any similar things happen to you like this? Please expain.