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Not what I should talk about on here really, but want a fresh mental and physical relationship with someone.

Have a partner (has no interest in me anymore) and 2 young children whom I adore, they need me x

I want the fun of a new relationship again without [email protected] up my kids lives, standard stuff for a middle aged bloke I guess. (Think you call it an affair)

Call me what you like, but is how I feel right now x
 
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Not what I should talk about on here really, but want a fresh mental and physical relationship with someone.

Have a partner (has no interest in me anymore) and 2 young children whom I adore, they need me x

I want the fun of a new relationship again without [email protected] up my kids lives, standard stuff for a middle aged bloke I guess. (Think you call it an affair)

Call me what you like, but is how I feel right now x
ok I understand
 
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Its happens...
Youre stuck but its necessary for the children.
 
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Bang on. Feels like women generally switch off from the partner when the kids arrive. Men still have strong feelings and have much to give. I adore my children, but desires don't end.
 
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I dont know why women do this.
How long have you been together if you want to say?
 
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Would she kind of expect it, doe she know that youre feeling like this.
 
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I dont know why women do this.
How long have you been together if you want to say?
10 years, she is just cold towards me and argumentative. That is what ended most of my relationships. I am passive by nature and like to talk problems over.
 
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If she knows that youre both drifting apart unyet makes it worse. If she isnt helping, if shes comfortable as it is...
for both men or women in this situation...it is understandable and acceptable to think about having a new person.
 
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