- Apr 7, 2019
- By the sea
Hi , I am new here. I have had anxiety and depression for many years and have been a longtime heavy drinker. I stopped drinking 10 weeks ago and really want To get my anxiety under control. Recently I was promoted in my office job and given a team clear about the North west. All was fine then I was given two people to manage in the same room as me . There are about 30 people in the room. I have been in this room for two years and never had any issues. The minute these people found out I was to be there manager they raised loads of issues to senior management. I had an awful meeting on Friday where they brought up everything that I had said that was at the time said in a joke and not offensive and embellished it to make me look like a creep. Compliment I had said and were received happily were now lecherous. I was made to look awful. I now have to wait and see what happens. It's not a complaint about me but a list of reasons why they won't work with me. These are known for their negativity and unkindness. And I am known as a good person that helps others. At least I was. I have been in the job27 years. So I have been ruminating constantly and just cannot get ease from my thoughts . Ihavent gone back to drink but I am struggling to stop feeling anxious. Any thoughts?