- Jun 6, 2020
I think you should do it! Do it for yourself. I got kicked out when I was in a bad way completely abandoned. I'd not for their cruelty I would probably sti be living there. It's a long way to build up confidence and self reliance. Take it slow and try not to let anyone else in your head. You control you. It's all you have. Don't give it away. If I can accept my weakness and keep going so can you.You know, the worst thing about lacking independence, is that parents can be really controlling/irritating. I feel as if I'm being held hostage, never having the chance to escape. If I ever mention that I could move out one day, they cross their arms, roll their eyes or ignore me. There is no encouragement, no support about it. When I try to confront them and explain that their attitude angers me, they act as if they never had any problem with me moving out and patronise me saying "we can't wait for you to leave home, we've been stuck with you for far too long"..... I hate it when people insult my intelligence like this. Why do parents have to be so manipulative?