
thebubbles22
Active member
Hi Everyone,
I'm a Borderline Personality Disorder sufferer, self harmer, depressed, and with suicidal tendancies, to be blunt!
I have been with my partner for just over 8 years now, we are both 23, got engaged about 4 years ago, and have lived in our own flat for 2 years.
More often than not, if I try to become "intimate" with him, he pushes me away. He wont even hug or kiss me the majority of the time.
We do love each other with all our hearts, and I have tried talking to him on many occasions and even writing him ranting notes demanding affectionate attention, which works for about a week, then we're back to square one.
He is constantly saying he is tired, or busy watching tv, and he give our two cats more attention than me!
Any suggestions? Am I being pathetic? How can I make him want me again? All this rejection and lack of affection is making me really struggle with coping with living.
Love and Hugs
Bubbles
x x x
I'm a Borderline Personality Disorder sufferer, self harmer, depressed, and with suicidal tendancies, to be blunt!
I have been with my partner for just over 8 years now, we are both 23, got engaged about 4 years ago, and have lived in our own flat for 2 years.
More often than not, if I try to become "intimate" with him, he pushes me away. He wont even hug or kiss me the majority of the time.
We do love each other with all our hearts, and I have tried talking to him on many occasions and even writing him ranting notes demanding affectionate attention, which works for about a week, then we're back to square one.
He is constantly saying he is tired, or busy watching tv, and he give our two cats more attention than me!
Any suggestions? Am I being pathetic? How can I make him want me again? All this rejection and lack of affection is making me really struggle with coping with living.
Love and Hugs
Bubbles
x x x