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Are there any upsides to being the most pathic being there is?

Tired Daisy

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I'm a laughing stock to people, people don't mix with me I've tried to mix with others so many times but people seem to hate me.

I'm called a retard and seen as a retard anything I do is seen as irrelevant I have the most awful voice which people either laugh at or they hate it and tell me to not speak and then people wonder why I don't talk much... its not just my voice I'm probably one of the biggest rejects there is.
 
exyz

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(((((TD))))
It's an awful word and shame on the people who use it. We have all been called awful things, I've been called all sorts. Thing is, these people are all the same. They are brave in a group, or when we seem less physically strong than them. Or if we are a bit "different" to what they consider "normal"... which is a carbon copy of themselves:rolleyes:

It is hard when you feel so alone to shrug stuff off, especially when you have survived such tough times as you have. You do your best here to make this forum welcoming and safe and don't think the rest of us don't notice. :hug1:

I wish I could be more support to you but please don't think less of yourself because of some knuckle draggers.

Love and a big hug to you our dear pal xxx
 
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I'm so sorry you have been made to feel this way, TD :hug: You have always been caring and supportive here, so screw what anyone else thinks. We think you're fabulous :cool::D
 
Tired Daisy

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Next time I wont be accepting parcels for them when there not in I will tell the delivery man to take them back. I really thought he was ok with me and him and his pretty girlfriend has the cheek to make fun of me and try wind me up and laugh at me.
 
Mayflower7

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Hi TD,
I'm sorry people are like that, your not any of those words.
You deserve happiness and people should respect you.
I wouldn't accept parcels either for them.
Take care
 
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Sorry those arseholes were so horrible to you and you have to put up with so much from so many crappy people. There are some real jerks out there. I agree with the other posters, you're really great, your neighbors are really missing out on a good guy.
It is really tough being treated so badly, you deserve so so much better TD. We are with you, on your side, I know its through a computer screen so might feel quite distant sometimes but we are still real people cheering you on
 
Tired Daisy

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Sorry those arseholes were so horrible to you and you have to put up with so much from so many crappy people. There are some real jerks out there. I agree with the other posters, you're really great, your neighbors are really missing out on a good guy.
It is really tough being treated so badly, you deserve so so much better TD. We are with you, on your side, I know its through a computer screen so might feel quite distant sometimes but we are still real people cheering you on
:thanks::thx::hug: Its me missing out on days not them. His a well off person who owns his flat and he has a nice girlfriend and I expect nobody stares them when they are out they have lots of friends and they look normal. Maybe if they knew what its like to be me they might not laugh anymore because I know they wouldn't like it if they had to suffer with the stuff I have to put up with but then again they won't ever understand. I know I deserve better but the fact is things wont get better for somebody like me I'm always going to be that loner and odd ball who people laugh at.
 
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I'm really sorry this has happened to you. It's awful when you help people out and they throw it back in your face and worse.

I has something similar when I moved in to my new place. I helped the lady downstairs with loads, her computer, painted her garage, carried things, fixed stuff, did her shopping. Later I found out she was complaining about me to our residents association and neighbors.

You're not pathetic. They are. You have the decency to go out of your way to help people and be a good neighbor. It's just being a good person. If they don't have the sense or recognise this, then it is their loss.

You have tried to do the right and proper thing, they don't deserve it.

Whilst I know it's hard to ignore what has been said, don't help them any more. If they are going out of their way to make your life hard, don't make it any harder by going out of your way to help them.

Just politely refuse the packages when they turn up. You don't have to tell them that you have done so. if they ask you to wait in, just tell them you're sorry but it's not convenient.

Be confident in knowing you tried and it was them who failed.
 
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