M
matt
Active member
- Joined
- Dec 18, 2008
- Messages
- 25
I am convince I was married to a woman with a disorder. Try to keep the story short. We met and she was wonderful, maybe to wonderful. Nice,smart, seemed sincere at the time, great family. I did notice she had almost no female friends. We never had disagreements. we were happy.
We were to marry a year and a half later. she refused to invite any of her coworkers to the wedding...most of them were men.Two weeks before the wedding I contacted an STD. I should have caught on at that point.
6 months into the marriage I arrived home after work to find her father at my home, he stated my wife had called him and told him she would be late home from work and that he should keep me company until she arrived home. Long story short she was out having sex with another man.
The affairs kept coming and it did not matter with who she had the affairs. When the smallest thing comes along that upsets her in life she has an affair. My marriage ended after 7 affairs. She was also this way before she met me.
She would always bring up the mans name in conversation she was having an affiar with before the affair was found out. She has never had a relationship that she did not cheat on her partener. She thinks all the men she has had affairs with are her best friends in life. She hugs them and flirts with them at every chance.
She left me for a friend of her families . She was having sex with him when she was a teenager and before I had met her. He was married and had children during their affair before I met her. she emailed me and Told me after moving in with him she had changed her ways and he had saved her from our terrible marriage. she stated she would never cheat on him. 6 months later I received another email from her telling me about this great guy at the place she works.She had an affair with him. a few months later she arrived at my house, upset with he boyfriends daughter. She seemed like a person I had never met! The conversation changed from being upset with the daughter to "do you want to have sex with me"? At that moment she seemed so disconcerned with everything and everyone, she went on to explain having sex with me would make her feel better.
Other things in her life. She flirts with every male! age does not matter. She always get fired from her jobs. She can not deal with any type of pain, this includes emtional and physical. Nothing is ever her fault. she does not care if she hurts other people, she will tell you that! She seems to live two lives almost, many in town think she is a wonderful person, those that have experianced what she can do to someone think very differant. She has been all but disowned by her family and holds me to blame for that because her family and I are still close. She hates me at this point but still thinks I should do anything she requests........ ANY IDEAS?
We were to marry a year and a half later. she refused to invite any of her coworkers to the wedding...most of them were men.Two weeks before the wedding I contacted an STD. I should have caught on at that point.
6 months into the marriage I arrived home after work to find her father at my home, he stated my wife had called him and told him she would be late home from work and that he should keep me company until she arrived home. Long story short she was out having sex with another man.
The affairs kept coming and it did not matter with who she had the affairs. When the smallest thing comes along that upsets her in life she has an affair. My marriage ended after 7 affairs. She was also this way before she met me.
She would always bring up the mans name in conversation she was having an affiar with before the affair was found out. She has never had a relationship that she did not cheat on her partener. She thinks all the men she has had affairs with are her best friends in life. She hugs them and flirts with them at every chance.
She left me for a friend of her families . She was having sex with him when she was a teenager and before I had met her. He was married and had children during their affair before I met her. she emailed me and Told me after moving in with him she had changed her ways and he had saved her from our terrible marriage. she stated she would never cheat on him. 6 months later I received another email from her telling me about this great guy at the place she works.She had an affair with him. a few months later she arrived at my house, upset with he boyfriends daughter. She seemed like a person I had never met! The conversation changed from being upset with the daughter to "do you want to have sex with me"? At that moment she seemed so disconcerned with everything and everyone, she went on to explain having sex with me would make her feel better.
Other things in her life. She flirts with every male! age does not matter. She always get fired from her jobs. She can not deal with any type of pain, this includes emtional and physical. Nothing is ever her fault. she does not care if she hurts other people, she will tell you that! She seems to live two lives almost, many in town think she is a wonderful person, those that have experianced what she can do to someone think very differant. She has been all but disowned by her family and holds me to blame for that because her family and I are still close. She hates me at this point but still thinks I should do anything she requests........ ANY IDEAS?