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cantcopewithlife

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So a load of work friends are having drinks round someone's house tonight and I found out about it through their posts on social media, all we're going to have a fab time tonight kind of thing, and I'm feeling really left out. I go to some nights they have but some I politely decline to because I suffer with social anxiety, but they just haven't mentioned this one at all and I'm feeling rejected and hurt. Am I right to feel like this?
 
Bipolarbear2

Bipolarbear2

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Yes, anyone would feel the same way. I'm hoping that they just thought you wouldn't be interested and that it's not malicious.
There could be lots of reasons why you weren't invited. If you want to know ask someone in work. You could say I saw on Facebook you all went out the other night, was it someone's birthday etc. Basically let them know that they left you out.
 
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