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Always wanted a fairytale life

qwerty1234

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I have never grown up... I thought life would just happen to me on its own, no having to scheme or manipulate, that I would just find my passion and move towards it.

I hope it will work out in 2019, I seek a deeper connection between myself and this world.
 
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Same here. :) I hope to make more positive connections with people and make friends irl as well.
 
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Yay hi pairou nice to be getting closer with you! Friends would definitely be nice. All my friends are busy with their day jobs.

I guess if I get a job I may be more fulfilled, though for right now it has been nice without it.... talking has been super helpful and having community makes me feel better.

You have a wife which is nice. I hope I can find someone ... we will see what happens... I have close friends but it is not the same as a significant other.
 
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You are 39, I am 35!!!!! Yay nice to make more friends!!!!! I still have a crush on my old prom date, I need to be in a relationship! Pairou you are so lucky you have a wife.

I hope to be in a relationship this year. It would sure be nice. And have more friends.
 
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Having low level anxiety because my friend is not replying to me, he does this all the time but I prefer to be able to learn to be chill rather than complain.
 
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Having low level anxiety because my friend is not replying to me, he does this all the time but I prefer to be able to learn to be chill rather than complain.
You must remember that he also probably has his own thing going on, so it's okay when they don't respond because if they care, they will when they can.

It's also okay to feel anxious about it. Feel your feelings girl.

Distraction is a good way to help the anxiety when someone feels distant. It's how I get through those situations.
 
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Oh my God thank you so much for Pairou, you are extremely helping me through the feelings of abandonment and rejection....

I decided I would give up a fairy tale life for deeper connection to the world and myself.
 
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I find now that I am older that it might be fun to have some kids and be in a couple but I guess time will tell...
 
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I'm the same. I'm 42 but feel stuck at 12! Xxx
 
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