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Always the one asking in a friendship need advice!

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Was wondering if it's a bad thing to always be the one communicating first in a friendship. Any advice or other people experiences are welcome.

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I think it depends, they could be shy or have an issue with rejection or something which means they don't like to contact you first?
What happens after you contact them first?
 
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I think it depends, they could be shy or have an issue with rejection or something which means they don't like to contact you first?
What happens after you contact them first?
Well they normally either reply or don't. I just find it's mostly me who starts conversations or try to interact. I wonder if that's a bad thing. I don't know if I would say it's has any thing to do with rejection or being shy.
 
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Can someone delete this post please? I no longer need advice.
 
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