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sourbubblegum1
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- Nov 3, 2008
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i had been living with ym boyfriend for 2 years and i love him very much, i would do anything for him.
he left the country now and a month ago i found out he is actually married with 2 kids. i guess it was easy for him to make up a new life here.
he says he loves me and wants to be with me. He emails me alot and calls me sends me money and gifts. I want to be with him but he is living in a country far away from my home and he is my only person i can rely on.
he cant get a divorce because of his two kids and the culture. he wants me to come back with him and i really wanna be with him but im worried about what i can do? This would be a big change for me. i dont know how i can be with him unless he gets a divorce.
he did lie to me and said that he was talking on the phone and buying stuff for his neice and nephew when he was for his kids. i do think he cares about me but im having a problem with trust now and the idea of moving to another country to be with the person i love. this seems complicated. im dealing with a serious mental condition and he didnt want to make it worse by me knowing what was going on.
he is coming back to spend a month with me in 6 months and i will have to wait to see him until then before i possibly go to his country. can anyone advice me on if this is a good idea and what i can do to make things work for us when he is already married.
he left the country now and a month ago i found out he is actually married with 2 kids. i guess it was easy for him to make up a new life here.
he says he loves me and wants to be with me. He emails me alot and calls me sends me money and gifts. I want to be with him but he is living in a country far away from my home and he is my only person i can rely on.
he cant get a divorce because of his two kids and the culture. he wants me to come back with him and i really wanna be with him but im worried about what i can do? This would be a big change for me. i dont know how i can be with him unless he gets a divorce.
he did lie to me and said that he was talking on the phone and buying stuff for his neice and nephew when he was for his kids. i do think he cares about me but im having a problem with trust now and the idea of moving to another country to be with the person i love. this seems complicated. im dealing with a serious mental condition and he didnt want to make it worse by me knowing what was going on.
he is coming back to spend a month with me in 6 months and i will have to wait to see him until then before i possibly go to his country. can anyone advice me on if this is a good idea and what i can do to make things work for us when he is already married.