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Blackrose09

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I m so scared to see this person I becomed very mood anxious and shaking because I need to see this person. I don't know what to espect. Im so tired of this
 
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Hi Blackrose09, that doesn't sound good. People that cause me so much anxiety, i try to avoid as much as possible. How often do you need to see them?
 
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Have you told anybody about the abuse?

Best wishes, your in my prayers
 
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Hi Blackrose09, that doesn't sound good. People that cause me so much anxiety, i try to avoid as much as possible. How often do you need to see them?
2,3 times per week but I only for maximum 1, 2 hours. In the past I used to see them more often.
 
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Have you told anybody about the abuse?

Best wishes, your in my prayers
I trued to talk with some psychiatrists. Because this person knew them and was making me look like the abuser. Of course they belived their version. Is OK I won't talk anymore. Slowly maybe I'm getting out of this relationship.

Thank you.
 
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It is hard to manage difficult relationships, i have one myself and cannot get out of it ever, but i have hardened and also learnt how to manage this person to avoid escalation. Often i still become affected quite badly by their behaviour, but i live alone now and so can turn my phone off and lock my door. I pretend to have a bad cold or be asleep, when i am not. I pretend to be listening to music sometimes and that i don't hear the phone as listening through ear phones, even though i am not.

It is sad i have to do this but the only way it can be managed to protect myself from stress. Stress is not good for my illness, for anyones.
 
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