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Absolutely hate myself feeling so stupid

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Just had a horrific staff meeting and hate myself for saying most stupidest thing I said to boss who's husband is in hospital from heart attack bye thinking off you with your husband hope everything goes okay I'm here if you need to talk but now I hate myself and feel incredibly stupid like I want to self. Harm I hate going out I always say wrong thing
 
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Hi,
You didn't say the wrong thing, your boss will know you care.
Take care
 
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It was probably because you care that she nearly cried.
Don't beat yourself up on this.
 
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I said to boss who's husband is in hospital from heart attack bye thinking off you with your husband hope everything goes okay I'm here if you need to talk but now I hate myself and feel incredibly stupid like I want to self. Harm I hate going out I always say wrong thing
I guess I missed something, because I don't think it was a *terrible* thing to say. You expressed concern for your boss and their husband, which is kind. Maybe suggesting that your boss could talk to you was a bit awkward, but I am sure they understand that your intentions are good. It is difficult to know what to say when people are hurting! You aren't alone in that.
 
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I think I need to go and see Dr as I'm crying because I made fool off myself and always avoid social situatios in fear of this
 
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I guess I missed something, because I don't think it was a *terrible* thing to say. You expressed concern for your boss and their husband, which is kind. Maybe suggesting that your boss could talk to you was a bit awkward, but I am sure they understand that your intentions are good. It is difficult to know what to say when people are hurting! You aren't alone in that.
I hate myself just want to hurt myself I'm so stupid
 
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Good idea to see your dr, therapy might help.
 
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In the meantime you could call a hotline.
 
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You’re not stupid :hug:
 
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Thanks everyone I can't stop. Crying for embarrassing myself I'm texting Samaritans and I'm worried other people heard
 
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Hi,
You really are not stupid, try calling the Samaritans
 
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