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lolo
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- May 12, 2009
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Hi all,
I just wanted to tell my story! I have had a very hard year!! I was friends with a borderline for 5 years. I lived with her for 1 year and 6 months we are part of a large group of friends and I knew she suffered from depression but I didn't realise she was BPD untill it became apparent this time last year when she started dating one of my friends ( I introduced her to my group of friends as I had met her through work and I did sometimes wonder why she had no firends!!!) As she got close to Alan she started to reject me - I experianced her rages for the first time and they were extreme and became more frequent as time went on. She thought I was trying to control her life and bully her - I was doing nothing of the sort!!
She tried to make me believe I was crazy and I tried my best to get her to get help - she went to the doctor and was refered to a phyciatrist but she never went.
She smokes dope everyday and takes pills on the weekend which only makes things worse.
After putting me through hell she moved out and just left me to pay the rent and started a smear campaign against me - telling the Landlord that I was a bully and she had to leave. Turning my friend ( now her boyfriend) against me I don't know what she has told him cause he doesn't speak to me and is barely in contact with anyone in the group anymore as they stay in bed for most of the weekend and she is doing her best to isolate him and is very good at this.
Her father is also BPD and has sent me an email threatening my safety if I was to tell anyone about her disease. As obviously when our friendship broke up there was allot of questions being asked by our extended friends a handfull know the real story and the rest do not.
I texted her in error the other day all it said was - well done. I then recieved another threatneing text from her father saying that If I contacted her again he would harm me. I replied by saying if he contacted me again I would go to the police.
She very rarely joins in in group events anymore but when she does, she does her best to annoy me like brings along a gift for my boyfriend this causes fights between us and it makes me so mad cause in this way she is winning!!!! She does not even look at me anymore yet she texts my boyfriend every now and again obviously he ignores her. Its all so hard for me to take as I never even knew that people like this exsisted!!!
Has anyone out there had a similar experiance??
I just wanted to tell my story! I have had a very hard year!! I was friends with a borderline for 5 years. I lived with her for 1 year and 6 months we are part of a large group of friends and I knew she suffered from depression but I didn't realise she was BPD untill it became apparent this time last year when she started dating one of my friends ( I introduced her to my group of friends as I had met her through work and I did sometimes wonder why she had no firends!!!) As she got close to Alan she started to reject me - I experianced her rages for the first time and they were extreme and became more frequent as time went on. She thought I was trying to control her life and bully her - I was doing nothing of the sort!!
She tried to make me believe I was crazy and I tried my best to get her to get help - she went to the doctor and was refered to a phyciatrist but she never went.
She smokes dope everyday and takes pills on the weekend which only makes things worse.
After putting me through hell she moved out and just left me to pay the rent and started a smear campaign against me - telling the Landlord that I was a bully and she had to leave. Turning my friend ( now her boyfriend) against me I don't know what she has told him cause he doesn't speak to me and is barely in contact with anyone in the group anymore as they stay in bed for most of the weekend and she is doing her best to isolate him and is very good at this.
Her father is also BPD and has sent me an email threatening my safety if I was to tell anyone about her disease. As obviously when our friendship broke up there was allot of questions being asked by our extended friends a handfull know the real story and the rest do not.
I texted her in error the other day all it said was - well done. I then recieved another threatneing text from her father saying that If I contacted her again he would harm me. I replied by saying if he contacted me again I would go to the police.
She very rarely joins in in group events anymore but when she does, she does her best to annoy me like brings along a gift for my boyfriend this causes fights between us and it makes me so mad cause in this way she is winning!!!! She does not even look at me anymore yet she texts my boyfriend every now and again obviously he ignores her. Its all so hard for me to take as I never even knew that people like this exsisted!!!
Has anyone out there had a similar experiance??