
fazza
Well-known member
Well fuckity fuck. My son has harmed himself. I noticed the evidence this morning and asked gentle questions but he denied he did it.
I have spoken to the school who have spoken to him and eventually he admitted it.
He told them that he was scared to death of me and his mum shouting at him for doing it.
I'm going to pick him up after school but the thing that I can't get my head around is that we don't shout.
We are not disciplinarian in any way and we have 6 children and the only rule we have is to try your best and if you do this we can ask for nothing more.
I was brought up in a very abusive household so I know how it feels to be abused so it's number 1 priority in this house to be kind open and honest.
I am stunned by this. The school have asked me to book an appointment with the doctor and possibly get referred to cams.
He comes to work with me at weekends and although he is quieter than my other kids and more moody (he really is a sulker) I never thought he had anything troubling him.
I have spoken to the school who have spoken to him and eventually he admitted it.
He told them that he was scared to death of me and his mum shouting at him for doing it.
I'm going to pick him up after school but the thing that I can't get my head around is that we don't shout.
We are not disciplinarian in any way and we have 6 children and the only rule we have is to try your best and if you do this we can ask for nothing more.
I was brought up in a very abusive household so I know how it feels to be abused so it's number 1 priority in this house to be kind open and honest.
I am stunned by this. The school have asked me to book an appointment with the doctor and possibly get referred to cams.
He comes to work with me at weekends and although he is quieter than my other kids and more moody (he really is a sulker) I never thought he had anything troubling him.