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  1. W

    Weebisto

    Hi all, first time here. I’m in the grips of a full blown anxiety/panic attack which is causing me to feel absolutely ill with nausea. Whole body shaking and I can’t get to sleep. What’s worse is that I’m in a hotel room with my wife - we are away for a special night together and it’s ended like...
  2. T

    Could I be a Trigger?

    Hello all. New here and could use some help. My good friend is in a psychotic state. It came upon her over a month ago. She had a couple of very stressful incidents happen to her in the span of a week and I think her already fragile mind couldn’t handle it. (She’s been fragile for over a...
  3. B

    Struggling to care for BPD

    I'm new here so not sure how to start off. My wife suffers from BPD and over the past couple of years we've had some lows...but also some highs. I want to help her more when she has an episode but it seems like I may be making it worse. When my wife lashes out verbally I can't help but take it...
  4. D

    Mandy and I are finished Abuse trigger

    I suspected something was wrong when Peggy went quiet after I noticed bruises on her upper arm. Sobbing she told me of being afraid my marriage to Mandy would end if she told of my wife hitting her. Proof of Mandy's nastiness happened earlier when she kicked our dog for bum-sliding again on our...
  5. N

    I need fixing

    I have a beautiful wife of one week , I love her very very much, yet on our honeymoon I stared at other women and young women at that , I am not interested in them nor do I get arrowsed in any way , it is so disgusting and disrespectful , I have made myself sick thinking about what I have done ...
  6. J

    Help with my wife

    Hello everyone, I’m new to the forum so I hope this is posted in the right spot. I apologize in advance for the length of my post. I found out (by mistake) a few years ago that my wife was taking anti depressants. She refused to tell me why she was taking them or even talk to me about it and...
  7. W

    Worried About My Wife

    Sorry in advance for the long post... I'm not sure if I'm in the right place or if this'll be welcomed here, but I really need some discreet advice. It wasn't until recently that I considered that my wife could be bipolar because the symptoms don't seem to be severe, but this comes from 6.5...
  8. T

    Anxiety? Depression? Crazy?

    hello all, I’ve been struggling with anxiety and depression for a while now. The anxiety has been a lifelong struggle but the depression is new. Little back ground, military vet, 9/11 survivor, married 11 years, wife cheated and I got a divorce, was a single dad of 3 for about 3 years until I...
  9. H

    Dire

    My depression started several days ago ( although my wife insists it started a couple of weeks ago). It has quickly spiralled at an intense pace. I am psychotic with visual and auditory delusions. They are acute and constant. I get know peace. My wife is so stressed she is at her wits end...
  10. B

    Hello

    New on here but not new to a wife who is mentally ill. It is very much appreciated to know I am not alone.
  11. vanish

    Living with an emotionally unstable partner

    It is so complicated. Man you never know what you are going to receive next or what what mood may present. Just now my wife told me to leave her right out of the blue, nothing provoked it at all. She just flew into a fit of rage directed right at me. When I started to look saddened by the...
  12. Y

    My wife is depressed. new country. no friends. baby. no way out.

    Hello, I remember the exact day that my wife started to feel different. It was in the beginning of march 2016. We were getting ready to relocate to another country. Later on we discovered that she got pregnant about the same time that she started to feel bad (Which was probably the trigger)...
  13. A

    My wife is grieving her mother's death, and has total hatred towards me

    My wife is grieving her mother's death, and has total hatred towards me Hi, I am at a point in life where I am slightly lost on what to do. The current circumstances are complex and have a history behind them. First of all the shameful part on my side. Years ago at a point where my wife and...
  14. E

    First post

    Hi all, my family has a history of depression and i have suffered from this for the best part of 25 years. I have always felt that i was worthless and had nothing to offer anyone which i guess was when i first thought i suffered from depression. It probably started from when i was 9 and i was...
  15. G

    Not sure if there's a fix

    Hey guys I'm at a very low point in my life where I'm seeing history repeat itself, my wife has become very distant from me recently and when I confronted her she has said that I've become very negative and not very nice to be around, I've been a horrible dad and hardly shown any interest in my...
  16. V

    Hello, I think I’m going nuts...

    Hello, I’m *Vegas. I’m a 48 yr old male, husband of 17 yrs and father of 4. I come seeking clarification and/or recommendations. My problem is I think I am seeing things that are not really there. Specifically bugs more frequently. This has been a daily thing now for the past 5 days. I think I...
  17. U

    I don’t feel like I deserve to say I ‘have PTSD’

    On the 13th November 2015, the Bataclan, and various other parts of Paris were attacked by terrorists. My wife is French, from Paris, knows the area well, and has an ex-boyfriend who was wounded in the attacks, and ended up in a coma. We both have a history of drug use, and as a result of what...
  18. antimatterTek

    Feeling Invisible

    I have recently dropped one of my radio shows (i still have a night) and quit another station with an Irish Goodbye. I am not getting any responses from a couple of new radio stations I was supposed to be talking about getting a spot on. I have a radio show I prerecord a mix for too. I have a...
  19. M

    Help needed

    My adult (26 year old) son is exhibiting some behavior that I think is reminiscent of a mental illness but we, my wife and I, do not know what to do. Is this a place where I can talk about this? My son will not see a therapist and that leaves us to deal with it. Here is what we observe. 1. He...
  20. L

    Mother emotionally abused me for my entire life and wants access to grandkid

    Mother emotionally abused me for my entire life and wants access to grandkid Hello, my mother is an emotionally abusive gaslighting narcissictic troll who has spent her life trying to ruin my life. By some miracle I have managed to claw my way out from under that hell to have some semblance of...
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