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  1. R

    Agoraphobic for years.

    Hi I was wondering if anyone on here has been agoraphobic for years? I've been agoraphobic for 11 years now since I was 18, I'm 29 now and in those 11 years I have only gone out a few times. I just don't know what to do anymore I cant cope with life and do wish my life away, I feel useless and a...
  2. M

    Fear I will never get better

    The mental health stigma is currently at its worst ever. My family doesn't understand a single thing about my situation. It doesn't matter how much I talk to them about it. My option is to sign myself into my local mental healthcare center. This could potentially give me a supportive...
  3. O

    Helo, please help with an advice, is this a mental disorder ? PLEASE

    It's about a person who always does the following with his loved ones, relationships: Every time she attaches herself to a person, she breaks contact suddenly, leaves. She says she knows that it is useless and that the person she leaves would spend useless time with her, because she is useless...
  4. M


    really don't know what emotion is overpowering me this morning but i fel very fragile, unsafe and tearful. i am trying to distract myself and by writing here it helps a bit but i am afraid the emotions will win and i don't what will happen. useless is what i am and pointless is how i feel...
  5. letmein


    I'm hurting and feel so used. ready to end it all. just not got the balls to do it. or the means. i'm a useless coward.
  6. Lolliebug

    Super anxious most of the time

    I've been struggling with horrible anxiety for months now with no relief. I was diagnosed with it when I was 14 so its nothing new to me but in this flare up I just haven't been able to cope well. My psychiatrist keeps adding more meds and they don't work so now I'm on a ton of meds that are...
  7. H

    Just started self harming

    I'm just fed up with feeling so inadequate and useless. I'm 34, living at home, currently unemployed and a failed drug addict. My feelings about all of this, the shame I've brought to myself and the ongoing pain I've caused to my parents. I also have an inability to act as your average human...
  8. Comradical

    Greetings Comrades

    Just looking to connect, maybe commiserate about the messed up world we live in, that alienates us all and makes us need to take meds just to get through the day. Trying to be a little less useless.
  9. S

    heads all over the place ..

    im 26 my sister died when i was 13, she died in front of me an image i live with everyday, it seems as im getting older im not coping as well as i was when i was younger .. i get upset, angry, etc most days.. now. ive just moved 4 hours away to down south to start a new job i have worked with...
  10. Fairy Lucretia

    am i useless?

    because i feel i am pointless worthless and useless my replies to people on here are pathetic i would leave permanently if i wasn't so lonely :low:
  11. S


    Been given 60 mg by my doctor and I’m on my 5th day there making me nervous as hell useless yorning is the a side affect or do I stop?
  12. Fairy Lucretia

    feel useless

    my sister is going through a lot right now ,i can't talk about it on here i don't know how to help her ,im trying so hard to be there for her but so much of what she is going through is triggering me and im hurting myself so much and feeling even more suicidal im useless and pathetic ,i...
  13. M

    Feeling lost

    I've now change teams and phyco doc. This new doc is going against everything the old one said and says I've never been depressed. The team I'm with now are useless. I feel low and am self harming everyday I feel so alone with lots of people around me
  14. H

    Boredom at Work Escalating, Making Dealing Difficult

    Hi all, I'm an artist/illustrator in North Carolina, USA. If you know anything about that area or the arts industry, you'll understand that there are very few artist/illustrator jobs to be had, much less full-time with benefits. I am also a type one diabetic (I was diagnosed as a very young...
  15. Bleh*

    I just need someone to talk to

    Hey, I dont really know how to start but i guess ill just write whats on my mind as of right now. Dunno man i just feel like a bad joke to everyone... I know im useless but i feel like everyone has to remind me just how fucking meaningless my existence is. And this is really hard for me to...
  16. C

    Sick of this

    Panic attacks, crying always, hating people and going out, feel like everyone's out to get me, everyone looks talks and laughs when I go out, feel like people know what I'm thinking, so tired physically and emotionally, feel so empty inside. I feel all this stuff but at the same time it's like I...
  17. letmein

    being a useless male.

    I'm the ultra non-alpha male. I don't do sport, I'm rubbish at DIY, I don't like fighting, beer or for that talking about sex. I'm not feminine in any way, far from it, more a grizzly Adams look a like, but I have real "male" issues esp when it comes to sex, I have a very small penis :(...
  18. polkadotscarf

    On the verge of a breakdown

    Don't want to OD so hoping that posting here will be an alternative to that. Feeling horribly sad and confused and conflicted. Tried calling for help today but have to wait at around 3 months. I need help now. Before I do some serious damage. Not the HTT sort of help. That's useless and...
  19. T

    Voices and self esteem

    When I was a child I had a narcissitic parent, Physical emotional verbal psychological abuse. But it was the chipping away at my self esteem the your stupid your useless you can't even... Useless freeloader your pathetic, wiped out my self esteem stocks. And now as an adult the voices tend to...
  20. S

    New Here and Overwhelmed

    Hey Everyone. I've been meaning to signup for awhile, but I haven't until now. I'm in a long distance relationship with someone struggling with schizoaffective disorder. She's currently in crisis and with the police. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to help, but I so badly want to. I...