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trauma as child

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    My First Trauma - sorry for long post.

    So the events leading up to my diagnosis for Borderline Personality Disorder are very extensive, and it started when I was just 6 years old. It was the summer of 2005, and I was at a 7th Birthday Party for someone who lived a few doors down from me, they had a bouncy garden set up in the back...
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    My girlfriend says she no longer has BPD - however I'm not so sure

    Hi there, I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months, and of late there have been a couple of occasions whereby we may have a little disagreement about something which I perceive as small, and she makes it much bigger than it really is. Often she may swing from being quite chirpy to low, and...
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    I don’t want to feel this way. I feel so alone. I do not have any friends.

    My mother left my dad when I was a little girl. He wanted her to feel the pain he felt, but she didn’t love him anymore so he used me to do it. I was three or four years old when they split up. He would tell me that she didn’t love me and that the only reason she was trying to get custody of me...
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    i'm new and i'm anxious

    i am not sure what to write with regard to whats triggering for others or not. this time of the year is very stressful for me. i am in conflict about xmas and how i truly feel because of bad things at this time many years ago. i also hate being told when i'm supposed to be happy and when i...
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    HI there I lack a lot of faith In the NHS mental health system as my brother died when I was six and well WTF I dreamed on that morning he got ran over 29.10.1991 it was me who was having my finale pic taken before suddenly waking to my mum screaming my name and for me to get up for school I...