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  1. R

    I can't think of a title

    I don't think I've had a good night's sleep in years. I feel like my friends only tolerate me, and my coworkers only tolerate me too. I barely eat at all anymore. Maybe one meal a day. I average maybe 5 hours of sleep a night. In fact I can't remember the last time a looked in a mirror without...
  2. J

    Can't Stand The Pain - Gall Blader Surgery

    Ok. So, last night I wound up in the emergency room again, for pain. I've been dealing with chronic colitis, so I thought this was what the pain was from. After some tests were run, I found out that I have gall stones and have to have my gall bladder taken out. Soon, they said. I don't know how...
  3. C

    20 Signs of Unresolved Trauma

    20 Signs of Unresolved Trauma | Discussing Dissociation (more in link) 1. Addictive behaviors – excessively turning to drugs, alcohol, sex, shopping, gambling as a way to push difficult emotions and upsetting trauma content further away. 2. An inability to tolerate conflicts with others –...
  4. J


    I've accepted who I am. I don't belong here. I am just one of these people who cannot get it right. Everything I do is wrong or not good enough. What's the point any more? I can't speak my mind as no one wants to listen, that, or no one would 'tolerate' my views and opinions. I feel like an...
  5. R

    Of course I'm depressed- just joined to read and vent

    I have had an episode ten years ago but survived it after blocking out some things . Well that got me in trouble now I ignored a valuable home until it has almost completed destroyed itself do to me not going there for years . I have brought this upon my family and I can't begin to fix all the...
  6. R


    It has been a while now, that I know that what I am experiencing, "delusion" wise. And it is these creepy people from my past. I was advised that by showing the perpetrators compassion it would go away. And I know that any attempt by me, to reject the occurance, to say no, or stop, talking to...
  7. P

    Neighbors made me vulnerable and insecure

    TL;DR: Can't tolerate neighbor around and now they are leaving home yet worried because they will still be around me, their presence depress me, give me headache etc and I am unable to focus my work as I work from my home. Hi This is my first ever post on this forum. Infact first ever post...
  8. tigerfish

    Just can't stop!!!

    Over the last 2 months I have self-harmed several times, but every time I have done it the urge to do more is nearly impossible to resist!! I have struggled with life in general since before Christmas with very painful on going issues that I just am not coping with!! The self harm is soothing...
  9. E

    Should I, shouldn't I...???

    Been taking Fluoxetine for just over a year, had dosage upped by GP twice, but had to take it back down to lowest level as I couldn't tolerate it. This is the 5th anti-depressant I've tried and the one with the least unpleasant side-effects. Things haven't been getting any better, I didn't...
  10. prairiechick

    The most lonely feeling in the world...

    The most lonely feeling in the world is knowing that no one can tolerate your grief. That's where I'm at today.
  11. F

    How do you react when people criticise you and as a result it aggravates your depression?

    How do you react when people criticise you and as a result it aggravates your depression? How do you respond/react when someone criticises you and their negative opinions of you were not asked for? Why is it that people seem to avoid confrontation when you ask them politely why they're openly...
  12. prairiechick

    Very, very depressed

    I can't be bothered to prepare meals or eat properly. I just don't care. I'm depressed and sad and angry and disappointed and disillusioned. I don't want to be alive anymore with all this pain. I can't tolerate it anymore. It's too much. It never stops. I've struggled for so long and I am...